Hi James. So I’ve recently found the idea of orgasm denial but the more I read the more I wonder if I’ve been in denial all along? I didn’t explore myself much before my boyfriend, and knew I hadn’t had an orgasm. But when me and my bf got to together he showed me what an “orgasm” was although I’m not sure now if he did ? I’m always wet, horny and never feel satisfied after an “orgasm”. So I guess what I’m trying to say is I think my bf’s been denying me all this time and I didn’t even know it