Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Dear James – I was edging all the time and loving how it made me feel… until I finally let myself cum and afterwards felt like I’d lost all willingness to edge. It’s hard to get back in the right mindset. So, I’m taking some inspo from your Wheel of Denial for the new year. I made my own list of things I know arouse me like crazy. Edging while gagged, watching porn on no touch, etc. They’re in a random numbered list and I spin for a # each day. I’m both excited and scared… wish me luck! -S.

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Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

hi james. i had been denying myself since dec 26th with the intention of going for a few weeks. last night, i was edging to porn and ended up finding a vid that aroused me too much that i lost control and ended up cumming. since then, i’ve felt pretty depressed and disappointed with myself. ? do you have any tips for overcoming this feeling? thanks. -lucy

Feeling like this is natural when we fail at anything. and with the heightened emotions […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

james, long time reader of your blog, i just unfollow sometimes bc i’m scared someone will see you on my dash when looking over my shoulder or something, but anyway, i have always avoided the wheel bc i am so scared of what i’ll get, but i’ve decided for the first time in so long to spin, and the first thing i get is no touch, watch porn for 30 min. i am already so twitchy and don’t know how i’m gonna make the 30 min but i’m more worried ab the 30 min after until my next spin! wish me luck! -cam

also, for an added twist, i added clothes pins on my nipples and wrote slut […]