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Hi James. I’m pretty new to edging and decided to set myself a challenge. I go back to uni next weekend and I thought I would try to edge until then and if I manage to not come, I can play with my vibrator and come on Sunday. How many times do you think I should edge until then?
That’s a great goal. A week’s a pretty long time if you’re just starting out […]
I wanted to ask because I didn’t know you could ruin an orgasm for a girl, i mean i’ve seen it done to guys. How does one do that exactly to girls?? P.S. Major kudos to your blog. inspired me to do 20 days of denial with my Sir, and he’s enjoying it
female-orgasm-denial: What a great question, and thanks so much for the encouragement! So, ruined orgasms… […]
Sir, I’m addicted to my vibrator and nightly ruins. I know you’ve given advice on this before (I have read this blog top to bottom) but I have very little self-discipline. I always give in to using it, even though I’ve tried some of your suggestions, as I’m impatient and anything else seems to take forever. I burn through batteries, and edge with my vibrator on full blast and no shame…even having housemates. Any thoughts on how to control myself?
Start using rechargeable batteries (seriously) Set a timer, maybe five minutes, and start using the […]
I found your blog a month or so ago and have been edging up to 20 times a day and do a ruined orgasm when I’m done edging and I am freaking soaked 24/7 but its not enough, I want to go to the next level and I don’t know what that is. I wan’t you to tell me what the next level is and you can make it literally anything, be as mean as you want, I can take it, I’m a strong girl so do your worst and I will conquer what ever task you give me, it will be easy as pie, just another challenge for the day.
Stop ruining the orgasms. Simple as that. No more cumming, at all. Just edge, after […]
Hi James, I’m considering making June a denial month for myself as a challenge, starting on the 1st. I’ve gone longer without an orgasm, but not while deliberately edging every day as suggested in your (amazing!) blog, so I’m hoping this will be a more enjoyable and challenging go! Thing is, my birthday falls within the month – the 11th – and I’m thinking about giving myself a pass to come on my birthday. What do you think – should I give myself that day off? Thanks for this awesome blog!! – Hy
Great idea! But no, sorry hyacinth, you do this properly. No cumming, all month. Four […]
Please James, Sir, help me… Im such a slut and I need correct guidance. Edging makes me horny, ruined rgasms makes me horny, no-touch makes me horny, I don’t know what to do, in what order or how much of each anymore.. should I edge or ruin or no touch????!!! I’m sorry sir I’m such a slut.
I want 6 edges one day, no touch the next. I mean fucking strict no […]
Hi James! I love your blog ever since i found it a few months ago! I have a little problem and was hoping you could help me with.Ive been into denial for some time but i have just recently told my dom about it. He has set up a schedule for me but its still leaving me with a lot of liberty to do whatever i want.Ive tried telling him i need a more strict schedule when it comes to edging/denial but he said his way was ok.So i was wondering if you could give me that schedule i need/want so much-kate
Hi Kate, thanks for the nice message. I tend to be less keen to get […]
So I was scrolling through your blog and Im new to the whole edging thing and I listened to cals curse and it kinda works. Its so frustrating!!! I didn’t believe it would work but now every time I try to cum I get a ruined one; when I cum it fades away so quickly. I can’t have an orgasm now or edge and it’s so damn frustrating ! I suffering here ?
You love it. Listen to cals curse at least ten more times as you edge.I […]