Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Usually when I’m doing denial I enjoy the way denial makes me feel (horny and desperate and ready for anything, and also energetic and excited and inspired to work on myself) but I always still want the orgasm at the end. But I’m two weeks in with a cum date on Saturday, and I kind of honestly don’t want to come. The phrase “cumming is good but not cumming is better” has always been hot but not real for me, until this time. Maybe I just won’t cum. I definitely blame you for this. So thanks. -G

Thank you G, that’s so encouraging to hear! I happily take all the blame!

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James. I used to orgasm when I play with myself but yesterday I decided to start my denial journey. I got so close to an orgasm and I pulled my hand away. At that very desperate moment my pussy clenched and I think I got a ruined as I wanted to touch it more. Is there anyway to avoid any orgasm including ruined orgasms? Btw love your blog <3

Just stop a little earlier, sweetie. Well done though. Practise will make perfect!

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

hi james, i need some advice! i recently started experimenting with anal, wearing a small buttplug, which i enjoy greatly! (i have never gotten closer to cumming so fast like when wearing it and playing with my clit). but wearing it makes other penetration extremely uncomfortable, even borderline painful. do you have any tips to help with that? or am i just doomed to never be fully stuffed?

Okay, good question. So let’s just have a sideways look at what’s going on here: […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

i’ve been following your blog for a couple years now just toying with the idea of edging and i just want to say that i love it. i’ve been sick with a cold the past few days and so my family left me home alone the entire day today and i spent the whole day edging with help from your blog and it was so great, i’m so psyched to buckle down and really work on my orgasm denial now, so thank you for your dedication to such an awesome blog so others like me can enjoy denial too ;)

Gosh, who knew, getting sick was what you needed to finally take the leap and […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

This is a bit of an odd question i guess and i dont know if its been asked before. But i thought id give it a shot. Ive been with my boyfriend for around a year, and feel very safe amd comfortable around him. We’ve been experimenting with rougher sex lately, and denial too. There was one night where there were a lot of slaps and that was ok, and i didnt cum. But i cried at the end. I wasn’t upset, just a lot of emotion. Is that normal? Its never happened before and freaked us both out.

It’s very normal, and well done for asking. It’s just, as you said, a lot […]