Your trollishness is really immature and offputting… I think it’s really messed up to threaten to release her private chat logs too. She wanted to stop what you were doing. So stop, and be the bigger person. Nobody believes you’re an abuser so just let it gooooo instead of trying to make as much drama as possible.

Look, it’s sweet of you to say that no one thinks I’m an abuser but honestly it feels differently when the finger is pointing at me. 

I had no indication she thought any of this until she told me to fuck off and blocked me this morning. I’m honestly baffled and quite annoyed.

I’m not intending to release the chat logs as some kind of threat, they’re very vanilla, give absolutely nothing away about her identity apart from her age. It’s honestly that they are really quite interesting to read. We discuss some good stuff about the nature of denial, what to look out for in good and bad doms, and some quite profound stuff about priorities in life. But most of all, it’s entirely devoid of abuse!

But thank you for the feedback, I’ll honestly take it on board as I think about what to do.