I think what you’re trying to ask is if denial is a 24/7 thing for realsies. For those wonderful women who give me the gift of their orgasms (too much?), okay, for my wonderful denial sluts it’s as serious as they want to make it – and yes for some it’s 24/7, for days, weeks, even months. No orgasms, and in some cases, no playing, without permission – plus any other kinky ideas I can come up with to drive them wild.
For my partner who I have the joy of living with… we mix it up all the time. Denial is just a small part of what we do (and sometimes it’s me on the receiving end!) and as fun as games are, making time for making love is definitely a priority.
Real world wins.