dear James,
I have a super tight pussy . I tried stuffing my panties in me but I can’t even make it half way through let alone other toys .any other things I can do to make you happy or to make you hard that you might wanna use all my aching horny fuck holes ?
Panties are one of the harder things to stuff yourself with if you’re particularly tight as they dry you out as you go, so that’s going to be part of the problem.
Do remember though, super tight pussies can be problem if it’s causing pain to you or your partner. Specifically ‘Vaginismus’ (not a pagan sex holy day, unfortunately) which is the name for painfully tight pussy problems. So have a look at that link and do talk to a doctor if that sounds like what you’re experiencing. The usual note here folks, you might be embarrassed about talking to a doctor about this stuff but you really shouldn’t be. They truly don’t care, they deal with this and WAY WORSE every day and they want to help. Even if you have to lie to others about why you’re going and make up some excuse like cramps, when you sit down in front of the doctor you can tell them the real reason you’re there.
Awesomely, for some causes of tight pussies the medical treatment, get this, is getting different sized dildos to fuck yourself with. I kid you not (thanks NHS, we love you too). They call them ‘vaginal trainers’ but it’s a set of four dildos – gosh, I wonder if you get them on prescription, I bet you can.
Anyway, my advice is the same. You need to be using something besides panties in your pussy. A slim dildo or dildo substitute (hairbrush handle is the go to object) plus LUBE. Lube will make a world of difference, yes even if you’re getting wet, lube still makes it better. A cheap water based lube like KY jelly is okay for internal use (lousy for clit play as it gets sticky fast) but if you can get a proper water based sex lube it’ll be better (but more obvious what it’s for).
Then when you can handle the slim version, try something bigger, a standard cock sized dildo is what you’re aiming to feel comfortable with and enjoy.
So that, that is what will make me happy my dear. Love your ‘fuck holes’ and learn to enjoy penetration without pain and then the world will be your oyster.
Okay, I couldn’t resist this, can we make this a thing?
