It’s nearly Christmas, let’s get horny! Here we go again day by day set of tasks for you to try out and have fun with this #DenialDecember!
I’ll be posting the tasks here on Tumblr but you can open them day by day here too:
Welcome to the Advent Denial Challenge, 24 days of kinky tasks to keep you busy, and horny until Christmas.
An optional but highly encouraged part of this is to keep a journal of your experience. This could be just for you, or ideally you’d make it something public so that others can learn from and enjoy your experience.
If you’re starting late, just take a few days to catch up by doing a few tasks a day.
Our objective with this challenge is FUN.
So I’m going to leave it to you to decide how seriously you take it. You might be a very experienced ‘denial slut’ or completely new to it.
So that will depend on exactly what you decide your rules are. The default rules are as follows:
- You are not allowed to cum without permission until Day 24 of the challenge
- You are to edge at least three times every day unless told otherwise
- If you go over the edge of climax accidentally you are to ruin the orgasm
- You are to record your progress daily in your denial journal
That’s it, on top of which there will be little tasks in the advent calendar each day, and sometimes they’ll lead to rewards!
Your Denial, Your Way
However, as I said, those are the default rules, that you can’t cum without permission and if you do by accident, you can ruin it.
However, if you’re new to this I suggest that you just have fun trying the tasks, don’t feel too much pressure not to cum, if you really need to, go for it, it’s okay, it really is.
If you’re in a relationship of any kind it’d be great to get them involved so maybe have a chat with them (doing a challenge of any kind is a kind of in thing so it might make it easier to bring up the fact you want to be denied – it’s a bit less scary when you’re joining in with something others are doing).
If you’re an experienced denial slut however, I’d suggest more hardcore rules, that you have to edge at least four times a day, and that ANY orgasm granted before Day 24 must be ruined. Or even, you don’t take them at all. Whatever works for you.
Edging is better when you do it with friends!
I don’t mean actually, in the room with you (although do feel free). I mean, telling your friends ‘I’m so excited, I’m trying Denial December, I don’t know if I can make it, wanna try with me?’
Seriously, do it, send the calendar link to a friend with a message, ‘Oh my god this could be hot, wanna try?’ and see what happens. The worst will be they just think it’s a joke. Best case scenario, denial buddies for life.
Go deeper, keep a denial journal
To journal your Advent Denial, either use your existing Tumblr blog if it’s suitable, and add the tag #denialdecember to each post (at least tags still work on Tumblr for now…). Or if you want to keep your primary blog separate, created a secondary blog and remember to turn off ‘Show author portraits’ and that’ll mean there’s no link to your primary at all.
Or if you don’t have a tumblr blog at all, now’s your time to make one!
I’ve created a post on how to make and use a secondary blog:
So, to kick off, make a promise, say it aloud:
‘I’m joining the denial challenge’
‘I want to be a denial slut’
‘I won’t be cumming till Christmas without permission’
‘So help me James’
Now edge yourself nice and hard, no cumming. And set up your denial journal however you’re going to do it.
I’ll be searching for the tags to repost my favourite entries, and please feel free to message me with your Denial Journal blog address if you want me to promote it during the challenge.
Happy Advent my lovely denial sluts!