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wickedlittlebtch:

female-orgasm-denial:

Found on a Northern Rail train

Love it!

It’s a good place to do it actually, with a coat over your lap, the rhythm of the train pulsing through you…

Ohhh but we have something better…

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A town called Ruining. We Dutchies use -en instead of -ing in a lot of adopted English words.

Ruining in the passenger seat… hmmm ^^

We could hold an annual convention!

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Those with children that are into spanking, how do you do it on the regular? I’d be down for alot more but between living with the in-laws and our 2.5 month old, it doesn’t happen very often.

femsubdenial:

instructor144:

D/s folks with kids, how do you manage this?

  • No bondage, in case we need to react quickly.
  • Plastic coat hangers
  • A thick wooden rod from Home Depot for a thuddy cane-like feel. I should have painted or stained it but if it comes to that, it’s cheap to replace. While you’re there, get two eye-screws and remember the diameter, then drill that size of a hole on either end of the rod, and then when you are able to have reliable privacy, you’ve got a spreader bar. Mine is pretty long so it’s unwieldy to use for caning (it’s more like hitting with a staff!) but the extra mass means more impact for the same speed.
  • Pinching. Rhythmic pinching. 🙂
  • Breath play… It doesn’t need to be heavy, panic inducing, or otherwise sadistic. A hand over the nose and mouth, counting down from ten, release and praise, then repeat, never too long, never tricking or mindfucking, always encouraging, does wonders. I know it’s not spanking or impact play, but sometimes it’s more about submitting to trust, connection, so this might be more satisfying than you’d think.
  • biting/scratching
  • Pussy spanking with a closed first is thuddy and not too loud.

Rule #1 for kinky parents

PUT A LOCK ON THE DOOR

Add to that some music and you’re good for a lot of it. But seriously, get a lock and 90% of the issues are gone. It means you can never get interrupted without warning.

If you’re at someone else’s home or similar bring a portable lock with you:

(They’re also great for security when travelling) You can get them on Amazon for $20 or so.

If you’re a cheap bastard like me you can even make one from a fork:

https://lifehacker.com/use-a-broken-metal-fork-as-a-quick-door-lock-1629334758

But the best bit, for the one you have at home (and sliding bolts are best for this) is you go into the bedroom, reach up to it, make eye contact with her and slide that fucker home and she knows it’s ‘game on’!

James

edging.space

PS – @femsubdenial Get some under the bed restraints for bondage, not rope, you can get out of them in 5 seconds, although I personally enjoy the, ‘Mummy’s a bit tied up at the moment sweetheart, what can I do to help?’ conversations.

wickedlittlebtch:

Please say it…

You know the word. You know what I mean. Say it whenever you can. You know I want it, crave it, need it, more than anything else.

Sometimes I ask things. Sometimes I demand. Sometimes I pout and whine and twist your words in an effort to get you to say anything else. But don’t do that. Please say it.

Make me surrender to it. ‘Cause that’s when I’m at peace. Use it against me to make me work for the things I want. ‘Cause that’s where I show my devotion. Inhibit me from making mistakes. ‘Cause after all, it’s for my own good. Drive me up the walls by giving or taking something similar but not at all to the thing I was asking. ‘Cause making me squirm and beg and plead is a wonderful thing. Then say it again. ‘Cause watching me fold into us when I’m not allowed to beg and plead is magic in my eyes.

Even when it’s hard

Even when I ask something you want

Make it your decision and please… say it.

This is so beautiful.

A year of orgasm denial

wickedlittlebtch:

So, it’s been a year since I started blurping out my denial experiences here on Tumblr, and a little longer since I discovered it (thanks to @female-orgasm-denial ofcourse) and tried it. I’m still feeling kinda bummed that I didn’t write down my very first experiences with it, but I was still kinda shy and on the fence about it then. Lately I have been kinda quiet, and that’s because I’m hardly edging at all. Life stuff and all. Anyway!

About half a year ago I wrote this post summarizing all the things I enjoyed since edging. There are lots more added to the list by now, but the most amazing thing to me is how much Sphinx got involved and is willing to try. I didn’t think he’d ever try it, and now he’s way better at it then I am! I’ve also noticed that when I’m not edging regularly, most of the extra stuff I find hot kinda fades away. Reverting back to my main menu sort of speak. With a couple exceptions. Orgasm denial, hypnothings and… oh fuck it, humiliation… Especially when all three are combined into hucow stuff *hides*

But things that keep going even when I’m not edging are feeling more free sexually, (yes even more, it’s ridiculous), boosted self confidence, body acceptance and self awareness mainly because of the experiences I’ve had this past year. It also led to me expanding knowledge about my submissive side, and how much more I’d be willing to do for a good fitting person than I thought. And! Big personal victory! I actually went out in the world and met new people, even attended a play party with a childhood friend! Shout out to kinky introverts! 😛

My main thoughts on edging & denial still stand. Ideally, I don’t want to cum. Not alone. Not selfishly. If I have to cum I want to please someone with it. Cause without that, orgasms just aren’t that great. But, the same kinda goes for edging. Like most ladies (as proven by my little denialslutfacts experiment) I really like someone involved in edging. Tasks, instructions, accountability. Maybe even a contest. Right now it’s not really compatible with daily life, but I’m psyched to get back at it in a couple of weeks! And maybe shorter runs, like two weeks max.

Really people, just give it a whirl… Try edging once. Cum. Do it twice. Cum some more. Try to hold of for a day. Just… whatever you do… stay away from ruins. 😛 And if you’re really up for a challenge, and like my style, click here.

Oh @wickedlittlebtch I’m so proud of you and so happy I helped set you on this amazing path. You’re a star and seeing you learn and grow and make this very much your own journey has been very exciting. I look forward to seeing where the next year will take you!

Ever edgingly,

James

wickedlittlebtch:

Why you should never ever ever let sadists handle your orgasm denial

  • They’re evil, duh.
  • They will use anything you said against you when it suits them
  • They will take what you think you might like a tiny bit, amp it up till eleven, and still find a way to make you beg for it
  • They will laugh at you when you’re vulnerable
  • They will rub it in your face when you can’t cum in whatever ridiculous way they decided you get to cum
  • They will hook you in with shits and giggles and inescapable adorableness
  • They will just sit back and relax till you work yourself up into a desperate ball of frenzy just begging to do what the hell ever evil concoction of depraved things makes them tick, just for their amusement.
  • Hence the probability of cumming when you think you need to is probably about 0.00392%
  • I told you, they are Capital E -vil.

Why you should absolutely have a sadist handle your orgasm denial if you don’t already

  • They’re evil, duh
  • They will use anything you said against you when it suits them
  • They will take what you think you might like a tiny bit, amp it up till eleven, and still find a way to make you beg for it
  • They will laugh at you when you’re vulnerable
  • They will rub it in your face when you can’t cum in whatever ridiculous way they decided you get to cum
  • They will hook you in with shits and giggles and inescapable adorableness
  • They will just sit back and relax till you work yourself up into a desperate ball of frenzy just begging to do what the hell ever evil concoction of depraved things makes them tick, just for their amusement.
  • Hence the probability of cumming when you think you need to is probably about 0.00392%
  • I told you, they are Capital E -vil.

That seems a high percentage.
But otherwise, spot on.
Good work WLB

undeadhardcandy:

There’s just something great about admitting something humiliating. Telling them out loud that you enjoy _________ even though you feel embarrassed and disgusting. The waves of heat and humiliation, the way your head goes fuzzy and you feel submissive and happy. 

This is one of the hottest mindfucks that denial and edging can bring about. 

Bringing you right to the edge, and whispering questions into your ear, making you tell me those things that no one else knows, those secret desires and fantasies that you’ve rubbed and rubbed and cum to for years.

The thrill, the fear, the arousal, finally confessing, and being told it’s good.

But that’s just the start. 

Now they aren’t just your fantasies any more. They’re mine. And if just thinking about them turned you on, imagine how it’ll be now, your deepest desires, turned back to you, no longer under your control. Twisted, enhanced, expanded. 

So exposed, and all the better for it.

And you still won’t get to cum.


Got a secret to tell? Be a good girl, edge, edge hard. Then message me with it.

It’ll be in the strictest confidence, I promise.

Or send it as an anonymous ask and I’ll share it on the blog, and perhaps add my own little twists.

wickedlittlebtch:

soft-in-your-palm:

humiliatorofsubs:

This is something I never thought I would enjoy doing. But it’s a level of control I absolutely love

there was a time when i didn’t think i would be into it…but yeah. that control, especially when distance separates….siiiigh.

I… I might be. Like. Growing into this. Maybe. Yes. Right? I dunno.

Denialslut facts in your face!

wickedlittlebtch:

It was so much fun
reading all the different answers to this post! So far 24 denial sluts
have answered the questions (as far as I could find), and I felt like
gathering those and seeing some results, even though it’s quite a
small group. But guess what? There’s only 1 thing all denial sluts thus
far agree on.

1. Mostly hit the edge just once OR mostly hitting and riding the edge for an extended amount of time

All
24 lovely slutty edgers found hitting and riding the edge for an
extended amount of time the best. That’s a 100% And I 100% agree. 😉

2. Self imposed denial OR being denied

Three
sluts reported to prefer self imposed denial, 4 liked both. But a
staggering 16 either enjoy being denied more, or are looking for someone
to try it with. Hint hint.

3. Mostly solo edging OR edging with someone physically

Three
sluts reported to prefer edging with someone physically, ten would
rather do most of their edging solo, and eleven like both.

4. Use a variety of toys and (internet) aids OR just use your body(’s)

Three
prefer to just use their bodies, three like incorporating both, but the
largest group (18) likes to use whatever they can get their grubby little
hands on.

5. Edging tasks OR doing whatever comes to mind

Five edgers prefer doing whatever comes to mind, eight like both, and eleven are just dying to be told what to do. *grinnn

6. Short term denial (under a week) OR long term denial (over a week)

This
question got a lot of remarks. Apparently over a week isn’t nearly
experienced as long term by most denial sluts. (I concur ladies, but
ssssh) There where three edgers who preferred short term when stated
like this. That leaves twenty-one, most of which reported to crave to be
denied for a lot longer than this, who are into long term denial.

7. Edging is better OR cumming is better

I
was shocked to see it exists, but two edgers answered they like cumming
better! 😉 There where six who like both, and mostly state that the
edging makes the orgasm better. The rest of them (sixteen) are edge
hooked completely.

8. As much edging as fits in a day OR way less edging and strict no touch

Two
sluts are total bad-asses and like restricted edging and no touch. Four
reported they like both. The rest of us (eighteen) are greedy little
cunts and like edging as much as possible.

9. Edging made me easier OR edging made me like more stuff

Most
of the denial sluts, eleven to be exact, reported they became easier
accessible and are liking more sexual/kink stuff. Nine reported they
mostly liked new stuff more. And four are only getting people laid left
and right. 😉

10. Edging is more mental torture OR Edging is more physical torture

Four
people stated they found it more physical torture, eleven stated it was
mostly mental torture, and seven decided on both. That leaves one more
lady, a true hard-ass, who thinks it is neither! You go girl!

11. Share your denial story somewhere online OR keep it to yourself

This
question is quite obviously skewed towards the former, as the numbers
also show. One denial slut likes to share, but not publicly, four do
both, but don’t share that much. And the other nineteen love blurping
their denial stories out there, on the internets.

12. Also a denial bitch OR only a denial slut

Here’s
another question I could have posed better. A lot of the answers to
these had explanations that boiled to wanting a denial buddy, instead of
being a denial bitch. But hey, with the question stated as is, sixteen
people answered they are denial sluts only, and eight are also denial
bitches.


So there it is, #denialslutfacts.
Most of us want to edge as much as we can, as long as we can.
Preferably with some tasks mixed in, for longer than a week. It’ll make
us sluttier and willing to try more. Please don’t make us do no touch.
Let us get needy, greedy, and horny for you, and then edge together.
We’re sure you’ll like the results.

This message has been brought to you by; Edging, your favorite pastime.

Peace out! 😀

P.S.
You’re all welcome to keep the answers coming. Either reblog, comment,
or make a new post with #denialslutfacts. You’re also welcome to submit
if you want to keep it on the downlow. Or hit me with a message on Fet,
you can find me with username Handtam.

This is a brilliant little survey by @wickedlittlebtch with some fascinating questions I’d not considered asking.

It’s a good warm up for my soon to be launched Orgasm Denial Survey – which we did once before a couple of years ago, and back then. got 1,100 replies. The blog has ten times the followers now so this should get interesting!

Is there a burning question you want to ask the orgasm denial community? Message me and it might just get included.

Denial sluts? I’m curious!

thelovelybrokenwhore:

wickedlittlebtch:

  • 1. Mostly hit the edge just once OR mostly hitting and riding the edge for an extended amount of time
  • 2. Self imposed denial OR being denied
  • 3. Mostly solo edging OR edging with someone physically
  • 4. Use a variety of toys and (internet) aids OR just use your body(’s)
  • 5. Edging tasks OR doing whatever comes to mind
  • 6. Short term denial (under a week) OR long term denial (over a week)
  • 7. Edging is better OR cumming is better
  • 8. As much edging as fits in a day OR way less edging and strict no touch
  • 9. Edging made me easier OR edging made me like more stuff
  • 10. Edging is more mental torture OR Edging is more physical torture
  • 11. Share your denial story somewhere online OR keep it to yourself
  • 12. Also a denial bitch OR only a denial slut

About 9: Easier in the sense of more
willing to have sex or like more stuff in the sense that you get horny
by new or more things because of edging

About 12: A denial bitch is someone who loves getting off on knowing
other women can’t cum, and also love shoving it in denial sluts faces
that she as a denial bitch does get to cum

Comment, reblog or make a new post with maybe #denialslutfacts

My answers;

  • 1: Riding and hitting the edge over and over
  • 2: Being denied, whether online or by my side
  • 3: Mostly solo really
  • 4: Variety of toys and aids
  • 5: If I’m on my own, whatever comes to mind. Otherwise, tasks
  • 6: Longer please. 😛
  • 7: Edging is better
  • 8: As much as fits in the day
  • 9: Edging made me like more stuff (both really but hey)
  • 10: Edging is mental torture for me
  • 11: Online… duh. 😛
  • 12: Also a denial bitch, or I try to be

1: Riding that edge over and over. It’s so great and drives me mad with need.
2: Being denied is far more enjoyable.
3: Mostly solo.
4: Toys and aids, I love exploring.
5: I love edging tasks, comes with being denied by someone.
6: Long term.
7: Edging is better, duh.
8: As much as possible :p
9: Both, but mostly I’m more open to stuff.
10: Mental torture.
11: Sharing my denial stories. Have you seen my blog :p 
12: Denial slut, I suck at being mean to people.

Interesting little tumblr denial quiz…

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