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Tag: virginity
I’m not going to ask you to let me cum. I just thought you may like to know about my denial. If I can make it to September 1st then it will officially have been 2 years since my last orgasm I originally started on my own at 18, because I was innocent and worried that I was cumming too much I thought I had a problem Then I met my boyfriend at uni and he liked the idea so he keeps me in a belt He loves the idea of deflowering me after marriage but I don’t think I can make it It never gets easier.
Luckily for you if you’re kept in a belt what you think doesn’t matter any […]
Hi James! I need some of your amazing advice. I have been seeing this guy & when he gets back from his trip next week we’re *finally* going to have sex. He’s kept me waiting because I’m a virgin & he doesn’t want to pressure me blah blah whatever if only he knew what I was into (& he will eventually!) Anyway, Im kinda distraught about one detail-What do I do with my pubes? Should I get rid of them? I’m already trimmed & like neat but do I need to be bare?! I need a guys perspective! Help please!
Well congratulations, how exciting! I hope my earlier answer is some useful inspiration for the […]
Is it weird that I’ve been denying and ruining my own orgasms as a means of channeling my frustration towards still being a virgin at 25? Seems kind of backwards, but I like it…
A little weird, but understandable. It sounds like you’re using it a bit as a […]
Hi there! I hooked up with a guy last night and I’ve only had sex once before so I’m very tight and when we were hooking up it was very painful and I had to ask him to stop because it hurt to much and was too tight. Do you have any ideas how I can make the next time more enjoyable and comfortable? We definitely had enough foreplay so I’m not sure what else I can do. Any advice would help xx
Relaxing and practising, those are the two magic ingredients, and thankfully practising helps you relax! […]
So Diva, my little sub, you asked for an ask on my female-orgasm-denial blog, and here it is. As a virgin how has your submission and denial changed the way you feel about sex and the thought of losing your virginity?
my-world-with-my-dom: Wow, that’s really not the kind of question I expected… I thought you’d make […]
Dear Sir, I have a spetated hymen. :( this makes it hard to impossible to use the fun ben-wa balls I bought. I know I have to get the surgery for it, but I’m terrified of going under. Sir how can I make this a positive? (For those unaware: A spetated Hymen is when your hymen had a piece that strtches across the middle. it doesn’t stretch as well and can prevent the easy removal of a tampon. You can break it during intercourse but it best to have a gyno surgery.)
Hi there. I’m sorry to hear that, I’m sure that’s very frustrating. I’m not medically […]
Hey, I was wondering whether pantie stuffing is safe for virgins?
Safe, yes, but if you’re precious about your hymen then you may want to be […]
I took your survey, and as a 19 yr old (will be 20 tomorrow ) virgin, I feel like I may have too many kinks. I haven’t even had the sex yet, jfc.
Well, let me tell you now, 50% of those who completed the survey and who […]
Im a 20 year old virgin and i love bdsm in particular denial. I dont know if you will know but I was wondering if a vibe would be painful to use as i havent had my first time.
Thanks for the question, it’s a really good one. Let’s talk about vibrators, they come […]