Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi. This is the first time im asking here, but i been following your blog for a some time. I been edging myself but im still new. Id like to cum from penetration or humping alone, but i cant and im desperate. Is there some task that i can do to cum? Please. Its been 3 weeks. (Notice i didn’t say “anything”, i know how bad it can be ;)

Not offering you’d do anything is very smart. Clever girl. This is all going to […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

I have a bit of a conundrum. The way I get to an orgasm quickest is by clenching/squeezing my vagina while rubbing my clit. I am currently edging and not having orgasms, but I’m so used to clenching to cum faster that I do it reflexively whenever I masturbate, and I want my edging sessions to last longer. I have to stop so much earlier than I want because I can’t stop myself from squeezing my muscles to make it feel better when I play with my clit. Do you have any advice? Thanks!

So, some things to try: Try edging with your legs wide open. Keeping them that […]

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I just wanted to thank you for running this blog. It helped me a lot with building self-acceptance, as well as broadening my sexual horizons. And, due to experimenting with denial (which I first encountered here) for a few weeks, today I’ve been able to have first vaginal orgasm in my life. I hope you will continue to bring me inspiration with every new post :) (sorry for my english, it’s not my native language)

That is fabulous, well done you!!! (English is great btw).  You’re lucky you discovered vaginal […]

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Hi James! I would like a little advice. I don’t feel pleasure from vaginal sex, I always need to rub my clit. I had only two vaginal orgasms in my life! I am 28 an feel incomplete. How do you think, will edging and denial help me? I never tried it and honestly never had an interest in it. What can you recommend? I don’t have bf so it’s just me and my toys.

Okay, firstly, welcome to being normal. The MAJORITY of women don’t cum from vaginal sex. […]

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I don’t have anyone that I can talk about this to, so I’m going to tell you-hopefully you don’t mind much: So I recently got a dildo, as opposed to the slim vibrators I’ve been prone to buy. All was lovely as I took on this toy-until I got to the edge. Sometimes I’m dedicated on denying myself, for at least a few minutes, but I was fully prepared to cum from this toy. Until I found out I can’t cum from penetration only (8 I have so many mixed emotions on it. But I won’t say I don’t like it ;x

Of course I don’t mind! Thank you for sharing! According to statistics you’re boringly normal, […]