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Ummm I just wanted to ask if u still active in Here, I just found your blog and it is so my thing but i dont know if u still Here, so hello?

Yep, still on here sometimes, as you can see, but splitting my time between here and edgingspace.bdsmlr.com AND most importantly, actual writing or edging erotica! More news on that coming soon.

Exciting news – what I’ve been up to and how you can get involved

So I’ve been hinting at some projects I’ve been up to the last few months. And I know the blog’s been quiet, but as you’ll see I’ve been making use of the extra time.

I’m not going to give you all the details yet, but here’s the big headline:

I wrote a book!

Yep, in fact I’ve written several but we’ll come to that. 

I write for a living, but it’s all dry commercial stuff. Starting this blog up a few years back was the first time I’d really stepped outside of that, and I’ve loved it. But I’ve never made the move into anything longer than the very short stories I’ve posted on here.

So earlier in the year me and the missus were bandying around fantasies (most of this stuff gets tested on her) and there was one she loved so much, she asked me to write it up as a short story. That short story, well it turned into a long one. We ended up working on it together, getting her input on the plot and hot bits she wanted in there, and five weeks later I had 80,000 words written. 

And I absolutely loved writing. In a way I didn’t know I could. I have a lot to learn in terms of crafting fiction, and I’ve been reading some of the best books out there to help me refine it. But you know what, given it’s my first go at it, it’s pretty fucking good. The feedback from my ‘alpha’ readers has been encouraging too.

So the question is what we do with it now. I’m working hard on the revision stage, and in the next few weeks it’ll be ready for publication.

That isn’t really the big news though. It’s more what doing it has helped me realise, which is I love writing longer, erotic fiction, and I seem to have a knack for it. It’s made me research and understand the market better. 

While the novel was just a pet project, and doesn’t quite fit into the classic categories of erotic romance or hardcore erotica, I’ve learned what would in future. To test that I’ve also written a few shorter erotic stories, the kind Amazon is filled with, and they’re good too.

So the news is we’re going to give me writing this stuff a go as a serious focus of my work for a while. I appear to be able to write a lot, fast. There’s definitely potential here to make this more than just a hobby.

There is hardly any good tease and denial erotica. Now that may be because there just isn’t demand for it, in which case this will crash and burn, and that’s okay, it’s been fun anyway. However the fact this blog gets millions of reads a year suggests there is demand, and you like my approach on it.

I reckon the lack of edging erotica is because most stuff is written by folks who have the mistaken belief that cumming is always the objective of both their characters and their readers. And you know what, if it is, that’s great too. But imagine books where the heroine is denied, edged, driven out of her fucking mind. 

Imagine the things it might make her do.

Imagine if you, dear reader, were only allowed to cum if she does.

Oh yeah, this shit just got interesting.

So, if you wondered what I’ve been up to these last few months. Now you know.

The other aspect I’m excited about is the non-fiction possibilities. Writing up much of the good content from this blog into materials you can use, and share with partners, denial buddies, whoever. Not just buried under Tumblr’s stupid filters any more.

So, that’s where we’re at. We’re going to give this a serious go and see what we can make of it.

What next?

If you like the sound of this, keep watching the blog for more details. I’m thinking about having a Patreon for those especially interested in what I write, as getting a group together who are passionate about ‘edging erotica’ who I can go to with early access to content and for input on what to write next could work really well.

I’m also going to put out a survey on here to help me better understand how you all like to consume your erotica (if you do) and where I should focus my efforts (Denial Academy erotica anyone? Oh yeah, that’s in the works already 😛 )

Let me know your thoughts in the notes or message me, I’d love to hear from you. And yes, some samples will appear here soon!

With love and anticipation,


Okay, okay you can sign up now…

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Why haven’t you posted about today’s challenge yet?

It’s on the calendar, hadn’t posted it here as it’s a survey that I’m still working on. But life’s interrupted so it might have to carry over to tomorrow. Otherwise it’s just normal edges.

JuNowhere to be seen…

Hi lovely followers, just a quick apology that I haven’t been around the last week or so, family and work conspired against me and it’s all been a bit crazy.

I usually manage that by having a big old queue of posts loaded up so they just keep posting when I’m away with work, but that doesn’t really help when you’re having to do daily updates on others journals… whoops!

Thank you to all those who messaged me to check I’m okay, you’re beyond sweet. And well done to everyone trying out JuNO, no matter how far you’ve got with it. Tomorrow marks a week to go so if you still fancy exploring a bit of longer term denial then 7 days would be an amazing accomplishment. You can check the rules and give it a go using my JuNO main posts:


I’m going to be back to things properly on Monday and look forward to piling through the best of the JuNo journals and getting back into it for the finale!

Love you all,


I don’t really want to create a Tumblr account, hence writing as anon. But you’ve responded to several of my posts, and I was the one you told Happy Christmas, and you have permission to orgasm. After my orgasm, was so excited I showed my play partner. He looked at your blog and decided I should only be edging, repeatedly, until I see him January 14th. I think he’s intrigued. :) -J

So… how did it go? 

Sorry James, i did sound entitled but you have gone from very active to polar-bear like inactivity. Hopefully nothing serious is happening IRL and you’ll be back to full volume soon. Anyway we miss your updates and, btw, how’s poor snowflake doing? ?

I’m really teasing with the entitlement, it’s nice you miss me. But work got crazy, and I also got ill, and I’ve been playing catch up. Looking after Diva and Snowflake takes priority beyond that of course, the latter having just endured a very hard week of anal only denial… poor girl. I think we’ve reached new heights of her love and hate of this…

Wheel of Denial – Punishment


You asked for it, a lot, and now it’s here.

The wheel of punishment!

Now, when you go over the edge or even cum when you’re supposed to be denied, you have somewhere to go.

You have to do one spin if you went over and ruined it, and if you cum like a little harlot with no self control and ENJOY it… well, that’s THREE punishments for you!

You’ll soon learn, denial is better.

Good girls

Well shit, nearly 300 of you horny little fuckers have spun this thing in less than a day. You are very, very naughty! Yes I’m watching you, let’s see what the stats say…

Now this comes as no surprise, it’s you perverted Americans who have the least self control. It’s all that repressed sexuality. You should all be denied until you’re 21, that sounds like a good plan (it works so well for alcohol).

Oh but look, look, this is interesting, iPhone users lead the list wanting punishment, isn’t that interesting! And I though it would be the Windows Phone users who would be the most masochistic. Or maybe just there aren’t any of them… I suppose it’s not that surprising that those compelled to buy the shiniest trendy gadgets also have the worst self control.

Yep, very, very naughty, and I love you all!

PS to the girl asking where to aim when you get the breast smack result… you know, I’ll leave that to you. Whatever feels right. You can handle these big decisions.