Hello! I’ve never come far with my denial, I always end up cuming. But I really want to try the juno challenge. Could you tell me how often I should edge to make it through the month without cuming or giving up? That would be very kind of you. Thanks in advance! ~ bee

Hi Bee, Give three times a day a go and see how it works for you. Don’t set your target too high, if you’ve never done it before just try ONE edging session without cumming and reward yourself with orgasms later that day. If you …

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Hiii, recently I’ve decided to start with edging and denial and thanks to @littlemisssubshine I’ve come to know about JuNo! I can’t wait for, it will be my first denial experience. Your blog also is taking a lot of my time, thank you for that. Hum…Any tips? I want to make it good and right. XO.

Have fun, don’t take it too seriously, try writing a journal and sharing your experience, don’t cum.

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Serious question… Do you think there is such a thing as liking and enjoying denial too much?? It’s a huge mind fuck but sometimes I wonder if it’s “bad/wrong” of me to enjoy it so much?!

Well, yes. The big question with any of this stuff is has it become an addiction – which I’d define as is it affecting your life in a negative way. Are you edging so much and so long you’re not getting your homework done or …

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I recently discovered that homemade sex tapes are the best thing ever. I highly reccomend taking a video of yourself the next time you have an orgasm as a nice teaser to watch when you can’t. Nothing aches more. 10 out of 10 doctors would reccomend. Thank you for the introduction to edging James💕 -Dorian

You’re so welcome Dorian, it really is fun isn’t it, and teasing yourself with your own orgasms is just twisted and mean and hot. Nice work. PROTIP: As a single, or couple if you don’t want any permanent record a GREAT idea that I came …

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How long does an edge take? Do I go up to the edge, then totally stop, or should I risk riding the edge? Thanks James!

It varies a lot, really it’s about discovering what works best for you. ‘Riding the edge’ where you get really close to orgasm and just keep yourself there is a bit of an art, and it takes time to learn. But it’s amazing if you can …

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Hi James! First time trying edging and it’s day 2, so far it’s been great (and I’m loving it!), I’ve been edging 3 times a day but I want to be feeling reallyyyy desperate and sensitive.. anything you can tell me what to do to reach that point? ;)

Really, just give it time. It sounds like you’re doing great and it’s much better to go with it and feel it all build up than try to push too hard and either go over and cum or just burn yourself out. Lots of denial …

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Hello, James. I just got done with an edging session and accidently went over the edge (but ruined my orgasm) and now I’ve got a massive headache 😔 I think my body is punishing me for not being a good girl, and I’m definitely going to do more soft edges next time – A

Very wise, oh and… You’d be surprised how dehydrating your wet pussy and the exercise is!

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i just had the best orgasm ive had in a long time from the wheel of denial. i did a couple tasks then edged and sat there for an hour and when i came back i did a couple more and then let myself orgasm (very new to denial!!) and it was so good i had been stuck in an old routine and this was the best way to change it up

This is fabulous, I’m so delighted! Let me just encourage you, what you did, having a denial session and then coming back later and enjoying an orgasm, that’s COMPLETELY valid and a great way to enjoy denial.  You’ll read a lot about days and weeks …

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I love when you reblog one of my female orgasm denial posts. Always gives it a big boost. Thanks!

Boooooost! Always pleased to help a brother out! But on a serious note, I’m happy to be pointed to good posts, so if you or anyone who writes about denial wants to flag them up to me then please do. It’s all too easy to …

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