Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

I really want to share this with you. But for sometime now I have been denying myself my orgams and I slowly started to fall in love with it more and more. At first I hated it. My clit my pussy would throb of un-pleasure. Now all I want is to be able to be denied because when I do have a chance to orgasm I cum so hard thank you for teaching me what a ruined orgasm does to you 😩

You are so welcome!  A real mind fuck is the thought that all you’re allowed […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

while edging tonight, i ended up discovering an effective way of torturing myself. i teased my clit for about an hr. then once i was dripping wet, i fucked myself for 15 min without clit stimulation. i can’t cum from penetration alone and my clit was throbbing, aching to be touched. it was such a mindfuck and i wanted to cum so bad. after the 15 min was up, i removed the dildo and put myself on no touch until tomorrow. currently squirming in bed, contemplating humping until i fall asleep. 😩

This is beautiful, good girl! Now do the same tomorrow, and Saturday, and maybe I’ll […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Dear James, I just have one ask: why in the world didn’t I try this sooner?! I took part in your Advent Denial Challenge and absolutely loved it! Through an odd mix of circumstances, I had to put off the final challenge until today, so I’m working up my three edges now and once their done I’ll cum for the first time since Thanksgiving. Thank you for the challenge, for making all this possible, and for helping open my eyes to the joys of Denial. Much love – Alaska

Oh what a wonderful message, thank you Alaska! It really is wonderful! Welcome to a […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

I wanted to thank you, your blog has changed my sex life. I’ve always been able to cum easily and had a high sex drive but for me sex and masturbation was almost exclusively about the orgasm. Now I (usually!) don’t want to cum, I just want to enjoy it. I’ve gone from the destination being the point and the journey often an annoyance, to loving exploring the journey. I don’t want it to end by my cumming- but when I do cum now it doesn’t satisfy me for long, so I’m right back to that journey!

This is so wonderful to hear, thank you anon! This is why this blog has […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James, My boyfriend and I were on my bed, and I opened my tumblr and by accident my search history was open and he saw your blog name pop up. He asked, “Oh, so is that what you’re into?” And then had me scroll through your posts while he touched me, and denied me the whole time, until I was a dripping mess and finally then did he let me cum. Now, it’s something he regularly does whenever we have sex, slowly easing us into it. But I’m so fucked. Thanks for your lovely blog James! -Ellie 💛

Now get him to read this if you haven’t: http://edging.space/post/157240617903/the-greatest-valentines-gift Then you’ll really know the […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

I had the most glorious phone sex and it’s all thanks to you! I’m a pansexual female, for some background, and my only physical sexual experience is me giving oral to another female. I’ve had phone sex before, with my friend domming me, but I’ve never really given any instruction to someone else. Well, I was jokingly being domminate with one of my friends and the other mentioned how she had been sexually frustrated. I called her and began just flirting (1/?)

I called her and began just flirting with her. Telling her how I would touch […]