Hi, this blog is just too inspirational for me. I’m a guy who’s into controlling and denying orgasms of my girl. How to bring that topic up and make her want it? And how to start if she was never on the edge all by herself before?

First, don’t tell her about this blog, not yet. Make it come from you. Just try playing with her and…

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Hi! I love your blog! I’ve been interested in buying some sex toys for the first time and I’ve got my eye on one of the bullet vibs you mentioned in a previous ask, my worry is that ill desensitise, or when I do lose my virginity, will have to rely on toys to cum? Am I overthinking? Thanks

You’re not over thinking at all. Those are great questions. You definitely can get over reliant on a vibe to…

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I have a confession to make, I love your wheel of denial so much that I spin it A LOT more than once an hour (even when it doesn’t tell me to do so). Despite being good by doing all it says I still feel like you would want me to be punished, but how?

I thought it needed oiling more frequently, now I know why it was getting so squeaky! You can only use…

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