That sounds like a very good plan, Cristina. Enforcing ‘soft edges’ like that is a really […]
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Hi! I’m pretty new to this, I’ve always known about it, but I’ve never really wanted to try it until now. I like the idea of having this constant secret of being denied always there, I guess. Anyway, I’m a female, if that’s important, but I’m having so much trouble with edging. I’m self-denying, but every time I can’t seem to stop myself from going over the edge. Do you have any tips? Thank you! Love the blog!
Thank you for the lovely ask. The answer is pretty simple. Don’t go so close […]
Sometimes after I edge I feel a little bit of relief. Does that mean I had a partial orgasm? I know when I’ve had a full orgasm, but sometimes I’m nervous that I’ve had a partial orgasm by accident. What do?
Take it less seriously? Honestly, as long as it feels good and you’re enjoying being […]
I think I need your help. I find tumblr accounts like yours and others, but yours is always the one I come back to. I can’t seem to edge, ever. I’ve tried harder than I can express, but whenever I get there, I go over. What’s the best way for me to get better? I want to deny myself until Monday night, when I have an uninterrupted evening with a FWB… I’ve been trying for two weeks to start and it’s almost Monday. I feel helpless
Well the easiest way is to back off from the edge a bit. You’re driving […]
When I’m holding an edge, am I supposed to keep up the same pressure, pattern, etc., that I was just doing? Or am I allowed to back down a little to keep from going over? When I keep at the same speed I just go over, but when I back off even just the tiniest bit my edge fades a little. It doesn’t fade entirely, but goes down a little. Like, if at the edge I would have come within 5 seconds, if I back off it would take 15-20 seconds to come. Does that still count as holding the edge?
Experiences vary! Really, there’s no one way of doing it, and you need to find […]