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Whats the difference between a soft edge and a hard edge?
A soft edge is where you never let yourself get close enough that you could […]
when i ruin my orgasms, i don’t feel horny afterwards, if anything i feel more horny after regular orgasms. also, whenever i try to hard edge, even when i back off as soon as i start to feel an orgasm build it just feels like a ruin and i’m too sensitive to continue edging afterwards. should i just stick to soft edges because it doesn’t seem to be doing anything for me at all
Hi Anon, Ruined orgasms really do vary from person to person, so this is okay, […]
Hi! So every time I try to edge I just can’t stop and every edge turns into a ruined orgasm. Any advice on how to edge properly?
See below! It’s all about breathing. But failing that, just don’t get yourself so close, […]
So i’ve been denying myself for longer than i usually have and though i was planning on cumming today, i couldn’t help but pull my fingers away when i tipped over. :’) Good girls don’t cum right? Now i don’t know whether i should put myself on no touch tomorrow because i get too sensitive/close too easily or continue soft edges until i lose my mind… ><
Soft edges. Lose mind. Make it worse. Love, James
Hi, James! Could you please tell me what is the difference between a hard edge and a soft edge, and perhaps suggestions on how best to achieve each one?
I just wrote some instructions for a soft edge a few posts ago, so scroll […]
Hey James, I do edge but I only do about 2-3 edges, then I let myself cum. Anw, I hate how I lose the feeling of being horny after I cum. Recently, I’ve been wanting to feel horny all the time and to always have my panties dripping wet. Will edging for longer periods solve this problem? (If yes) How can I edge for longer periods wo cumming bc I always end up giving myself an orgasm unintentionally since my pussy gets so sensitive even tho I pull out immediately once I feel that I’m in the edge.
Simply, yes. It will keep you horny and at times get your panties soaked with […]
I have wanted to try denial for a long time. I always edge myself but I can’t keep myself from going over the edge. I know your usual tip is just stop but do you have any suggestions to getting over that first mental hurdle?
It’s not to just stop, I know, that’s entirely the problem! If you can’t do […]
Hey James! Any tips for avoiding ruined orgasms? I have been trying to edge 4-5 times a day for 3 days now but I keep slipping up and getting a ruined orgasm once a day. I want to do better than this. Thnx! Also, I discovered your blog and this kink 3 days ago (:P) and I love how open, informative and fucking horny it is. My compliments! Going to use it even more when I start playing with a female sub again. ;)
You’re so welcome! open, informative and horny is what we aim for! So, a few […]