Tag: sex tips

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hey there, I have never been able to have an orgasm during sex before, but rather feel satisfied with the act itself. Ironically, all I would care about when I would play with myself was getting a bunch of orgasms in. Now, having tried denial(although I haven’t been able to edge recently really[I keep accidentally cumming]), it is awesome and makes me playtime more fun and difficult. Even talked to my boy about it and we may be adding it to our play. Love your blog!

by jamesfod

Thank you! It’s definitely worth adding in, and can I suggest if he’s up for […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

So I’m a woman and always had no problems in coming on my own, though only by touching my clit, but I’ve never come while having sex with someone. It just doesn’t happen, I had a few times that famous ‘gotta pee’ sensation so I guess my G spot works, but I never came. I like playing with orgasm denial on my own, and I’d like to extend it to other situations as well but it’s no use if I’m not able to come in the first place. Any advice? And thanks for your Tumblr, it’s amazing!

by jamesfod

Hi Anon, thanks for the compliments and the interesting question. First let’s clear up that […]

Hi James! In reference to your reply to the anon having a pregnancy and STI scare I just wanted to say that I really appreciate how much you seem to care about your followers! You’re like a daddy of denial;) one thing tho, you said that women can get pregnant for 5 days in their cycle, while that was previously thought to be true the egg is only viable for 3 days BUT sperm can survive for a week inside the female reproductive tract so there are potentially 10 days ~ K (human anatomy student) x
Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James! In reference to your reply to the anon having a pregnancy and STI scare I just wanted to say that I really appreciate how much you seem to care about your followers! You’re like a daddy of denial;) one thing tho, you said that women can get pregnant for 5 days in their cycle, while that was previously thought to be true the egg is only viable for 3 days BUT sperm can survive for a week inside the female reproductive tract so there are potentially 10 days ~ K (human anatomy student) x

by jamesfod

Thanks anon – opinions seem to vary, 5-6 days is the average, but for many […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Casey here. I’ve faked an orgasm every single time I’ve ever had sex. My boyfriend WANTS to be considerate and generous and all, but I just can’t find any way to tell him that the way he licks my pussy, he might as well be licking my elbow. He usually just fingers me for a second then ploughs right in as if I can get off just from his dick inside me, and I moan and writhe but I’m nowhere near to cumming, and when he cums and slumps on top of me I clench around him and cry out so he can feel (1/)

by jamesfod

like he’s done a great job but it’s just so frustrating. I don’t want to […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Sir, I’ve been interested in anal play for a while, but idk how to go about it. I know I’ll need lots of lube, but that’s about it. What should I start with? How can I keep my asshole clean if I eventually fuck my partner? How can I work my way up without having to angle my arm/hand in weird and eventually tiring and cramping positions? Basically Anal Play 101, is what I’m looking for. Please, Sir, is really like to know and the internet has too many options that can get confusing. Love, Ivy

by jamesfod

These are excellent questions! Lots of lube is a good tip but even before that, […]