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So ive been seeing this guy for a while but he hasnt yet cum. He has said that my head is great but i cant get him to cum from it. The sex is great too but the condoms make it hard for him to cum. (He agrees its a bad idea to go without even though im on the pill). But its getting frustrating for me and i worry it’s frustrating him worse. I really want to pleasure him but i dont know how to do more for him and thought you may have some ideas.

Okay, let’s roll this back to basics. Forget about blowjobs, forget about sex, and let’s […]

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Hi there! I hooked up with a guy last night and I’ve only had sex once before so I’m very tight and when we were hooking up it was very painful and I had to ask him to stop because it hurt to much and was too tight. Do you have any ideas how I can make the next time more enjoyable and comfortable? We definitely had enough foreplay so I’m not sure what else I can do. Any advice would help xx

Relaxing and practising, those are the two magic ingredients, and thankfully practising helps you relax! […]

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Children get curious when they hit puberty. They watch porn/see things that are not obtainable unless by photoshop or plastic surgery. You feel anything but ‘hot’ during puberty & in porn only ‘hot’ girls/guys do sex stuff. By no one teaching them what sex & pleasure is really about, their self image & esteem suffers. By teaching them it, the healthy way, without bad influences (porn etc) they will be more likely to do things at their own pace & not do it to just get it overwith. Good parenting!

#preach Personally I got curious way before puberty. I was masturbating most days from about […]

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(1/2) Growing up I was homeschooled, and so I never had any sex ed class, since those “aren’t a thing with homeschooling” (apparently). My parents always thought of sex or anything to do with it as a taboo topic, so it was never even mentioned. I never really learned much about my own body until after college. I had time in college, but naive as I was, got in a relationship way too quickly and got pressured into sex and other things I didn’t enjoy.

(2/2) Being told “you’re supposed to enjoy this, how can you not know?” and “learn […]