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Hi James, I started reading your blog about a few months ago and I was instantly hooked. So far my longest edge has been 22 days, right now I’m starting an indefinite one. I’m only a few days in and its already great but I’m needy when I should be focused, like at work. Wearing my buttplug helps keep me focused for longer but then I’m soaking through panties and rushing off on a 15 min break to edge, is this okay or should I stop wearing it to work?

Here’s the number one rule with all this: Real life wins If anything, edging, porn, […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James! You probably won’t see this but I’ll still take the chance anyway! I’m a HUGE fan of edging, (and your blog) although I don’t usually intentionally do long term denial. When I masturbate, I typically edge for an hour, sometimes longer before I let myself cum. But recently I’ve been so desperate to cum that I can’t even stop myself, and it’s really frustrating! I’m not in a relationship atm and I’m not sure what I can do with this situation. Any advice? – M

Firstly, just edging as part of a session is great. As you’ll have seen I […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hey James, so recently I’ve been edging with only my dildos. No vibrators and absolutely no clit touching. Although it feels so fucking good, I find myself really desperate to rub my clit. The reason I don’t is because I know if I do, I won’t have enough control to keep myself from coming. I’m worried I’m going to cheat and break this streak of denial. Is there any physical way I can keep myself from touching my clit, or any punishment for doing so that would also keep me away? Thanks! ~A

I’ve known women who put on ‘Clit shields’ – either with piercing or gluing to prevent […]

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Hi James! I’m back at it again. I just started a fitness challenge with my family and I wanted to add some extra motivation to it. It is 12 weeks long and I don’t think I could manage that so I was thinking about edging all day and not being allowed to cum untill I completed all my tasks for the day and obviously if I don’t complete the tasks then I don’t cum. What do you think? -Scarlet

Hiya Scarlet, good to hear from you again. Using edging and orgasms as motivation to […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hey James, I do edge but I only do about 2-3 edges, then I let myself cum. Anw, I hate how I lose the feeling of being horny after I cum. Recently, I’ve been wanting to feel horny all the time and to always have my panties dripping wet. Will edging for longer periods solve this problem? (If yes) How can I edge for longer periods wo cumming bc I always end up giving myself an orgasm unintentionally since my pussy gets so sensitive even tho I pull out immediately once I feel that I’m in the edge.

Simply, yes. It will keep you horny and at times get your panties soaked with […]

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Hi James, I just signed up for JuNo about 2 hours ago and I’m already having a tough time. I’m so used to just giving in to my needy pussy and orgasming whenever I want. Scrolling through your blog and others makes me so wet and horny I have trouble controlling myself. I start out just edging, not even getting that close and then suddenly it’s like I can’t stop myself. (Amanda 1/2)

I want to get to that constantly horny, drippy, can’t think of anything but cock, […]