Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

So I totally fucked myself, and by that I mean I’ve listened to Cal’s Curse a couple times. I already found asking for permission incredibly hot, but it would have been nice to not have to ask EVERY time. What am I going to do when faced with vanilla partners? I haven’t had an orgasm in over a week. I’m desperate for attention. And now I’m completely and totally fucked. So thanks.

Hi Ashlee, Okay, so Cals Curse (a hypno audio that programs you to need to […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James…I’m a bit frustrated at the moment and I was wondering if you could help me. My new dom is wonderfully kinky and we have a great, loving and kink filled relationship but he doesn’t want to fuck my ass or go down on me and I really miss both of those things :( I have tried talking to him about it but he is from a country where both things are considered repulsive and isn’t willing to consider changing. What should I do?

Hi anon, Well this is actually quite a complex situation and I do feel for […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Maria, part 1. Dear James, hello. I’ve discovered your blog recently and want to say big thank you to you for your wonderful job here, i’m enjoying it a lot! Im writing in answer to a lady, who feels terrible after orgasms etc. I’m 28 and have never been in relationship. Its actually my bigest dream in the world – to meet someone who will truly want me as a person, cause all the guys i met only wanted sex from me and my heart has been broken for bunch of times.

So i’ve been depressed my whole life about it, but recently i’ve decided i dont […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hey James Here’s a question for your followers as well as you. I’ve been single for… Too long. H/ever I’ve been pretty sexually active. At around August, I decided I’d had enough of the meat market, one night mentality of a lot of the guys I hooked up with. I haven’t had any sort of sexual contact with anyone but me since. Here’s my question: every time I finish playtime, regardless of whether it’s an edge, ruin or orgasm, I feel terrible afterwards. Does this happen to anyone else out?

Hi VV, Well, that’s interesting. I’d not have been surprised if you said it happened […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

James, I need some advice. I’m in my first D/S relationship and recently my dom asked me to lose a bit of weight. I wasn’t happy with my weight anyway so I agreed but I’ve lost 3 stone (I’m now 7 stone 12lbs) which is slightly underweight for my size and more than I intended to lose and he still thinks I need to lose more:( I’ve tried talking to him about it but he just says it’s what he wants. What do you think I should do? -Mo

Hey Mo, Hmm, this doesn’t sound good. Firstly, losing three stone, fucking WOW, well done […]