Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hey! A few days ago, I got punished and I had to use my safeword for the first time ever. I still feel bad about it now and it happened like 5 days ago. I feel weak because I didn’t last through the punishment. But it was just too much in that moment. Should I feel bad or is it okay to use it even during a punishment? (Sorry for my bad English btw)

1. Your English is good. 2. It’s more than okay, it’s great. I’m proud of […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Sir, I was doing so well on no touch, only allowing myself to hump an ice pack (the numbing making it harder to come) but even so I had an accidental ruin. Is it normal to feel like you’ve literally “ruined” all your hard denial work when this happens? I’m the type of denial slut that doesn’t want to come, so even ruins feel like fuck-ups and kind of dampen my denial spirits. Any suggestions for ruins without the disappointment/guilt spiral? Or should I just skip them? Thank you, Sir! -B

Hey B, Firstly bonus points for innovation! Humping an ice pack, genius! (If anyone copies […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hey James! I’ve always wanted to try edging but I kept failing. Last week I managed to do it and lasted for 4 days. Unfortunately last night when I was edging myself I slipped over even though I tried to hold it in, but I ruined my orgasm. 4 days is the longer time I’ve spent in denial and I’m quite satisfied so I would like to be praised but I also feel bad bc I slipped over and I want you to punish me. I usually hump smth or rub my clit, I’ve never fingered myself. Also, I love your blog!!

I love my blog too! And really Anon, let’s look on the bright side, 4 […]