Hey! A few days ago, I got punished and I had to use my safeword for the first time ever. I still feel bad about it now and it happened like 5 days ago. I feel weak because I didn’t last through the punishment. But it was just too much in that moment. Should I feel bad or is it okay to use it even during a punishment? (Sorry for my bad English btw)

1. Your English is good. 2. It’s more than okay, it’s great. I’m proud of you for doing it, I…

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Sir, I was doing so well on no touch, only allowing myself to hump an ice pack (the numbing making it harder to come) but even so I had an accidental ruin. Is it normal to feel like you’ve literally “ruined” all your hard denial work when this happens? I’m the type of denial slut that doesn’t want to come, so even ruins feel like fuck-ups and kind of dampen my denial spirits. Any suggestions for ruins without the disappointment/guilt spiral? Or should I just skip them? Thank you, Sir! -B

Hey B, Firstly bonus points for innovation! Humping an ice pack, genius! (If anyone copies her make sure the outside…

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Advent Denial Challenge day 13/14

verysecretlykinky: So, I messed up. At the coin toss I was on no touch, but later that night I couldn’t…

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