Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial I had my first actual denial today. I was using my vibrator and was just about to cum when my roomate got home and I had to stop so she wouldn’t notice. the last hour has been unbearable and I’ve been aching so badly. What should I do to keep this going? August 15, 2018October 17, 2019 by jamesfod Really, that’ll do it.