Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

With the comment about balm I wanted to share one of my favourites. You need a small jar (like an empty spice jar) and fill it with lube up to three quarters full. Put in a couple of drops of tobasco sauce- literally only a couple!- the stuff which is just chillis and vinegar. Shake it up and test it- two drops is pretty mild. Then add more as you need to. I have about twenty drops in a tiny jar of lube and I love it, and you choose how strong to make it! (I might add more now actually…)

Oh that really is a homebrew!  Some will find chilli more likely to react to […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi! I just tried the lovehoney bliss balm and I’ll be honest, I was a little disappointed. After hearing all the gals on your blog talking about tiger balm and toothpaste, I thought “that sounds fun, but maybe I should ease my way in”. Well the bliss balm just didn’t do much for me. Is there anything you could suggest that would be a step between an orgasm balm and something like tiger balm? Thanks!

It’s a nice product but yes, it’s very mild. A better option for you would […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

fuck, i just had the greatest bathroom edging session. i found myself home alone for a few hours in my new house and i figured i should try out the detachable shower head and it was so. good. i decided to make use of being in the bathroom and put a little toothpaste on my clit – it hurt so nicely!! if i had an electric toothbrush i might have even used that too… i wanted to cum so badly but i’m not allowed to until christmas day :( anyway, thanks for introducing me to edging ;) -k

You really are making the most of it, well done! Just remember toothpaste isn’t an […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hey James, longtime fan here. Tip for your followers (hope it fits the blog!): If you try toothpaste – or anything stronger, for the matter – and need to get it off (Irritations, can´t manage it, whatever), don´t try to wash it off with water. That won´t help, since the actaul effect is from oils. Oils don´t dissolve in water, for those who didn´t get chemistry lessons. Try using some gentle, scent free lotion – that doesn´t work perfectly, either, but you can get most of it off in a few minutes

Aww, don’t spoil the fun. One of my favourite bits is when they beg to […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Denial bitch here, and also a physician. My pet is quite happy I decided to put transdermal patches (those weak ones for muscle pain, such as salonpas) on her nipples under her bra, all day. Unless you’re allergic (do test it!) it is a product DESIGNED to keep that menthol tingle light but constant for up to 72h (I don’t recommend sleeping with it, though) but touching is unsatisfying because you’ll be stroking a thick cloth patch, not skin, and the psychological effect can be very frustrating.

Well this is genius! I’ve not heard of these being used. Here they are on […]