Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi! So I really want to have sex with my boyfriend but I’m having trouble with vaginal pain. We’ve been trying for like two years but all I can take without it getting too painful is one finger and sometimes that’s too much. I’ve only really been able to get one finger in myself. I can only do tampons without the inserter. Is something wrong? Should I go to a doctor?

Look I could guess what the issue is but you know what, the answer is […]

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Hi James, so I have more of a ‘general sex’ question. every time after I have penetrative sex with my boyfriend, I get extremely painfully sore. He does not fuck me *that* hard nor is he *that* big (no offense to him) and does a good job with foreplay i.e. I am usually wet and turned on by the time he’s inside me. It doesn’t hurt during but only after. I have no idea why and don’t know how to stop it. Do you have any advice?

Painful sex is all too common (10% of women experience it in a recent survey) […]

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Hi! I really enjoy your blog, thank you for making it so exciting and informative. I have a rather pressing question. I discovered edging a few months ago and tried it for a couple of days occasionally, which was great! This time, however, I have been edging for 9 days. Since yesterday I feel some dull pain in my abdomen on either side (ovaries?) when I edge. I am just wondering, have you heard of this before? Is it a phase? Thank you so much in advance, I really appreciate it and this blog.

But seriously, if you’re worried or the pain gets serious, please get a medical professional’s […]