Guided masturbation – female orgasm denial – Part 3
Finally following on from my last post on ‘guided masturbation’ http://goo.gl/SpmhYC This time we’re going to add a few little twists to the experience, and as mentioned in the first part http://goo.gl/3tSCQZ we’re going to get some toys involved, if you have them.
So, after the last guide you should have taken yourself to the edge at least once, your fingers working eagerly between your legs, one on your clit, the other in your pussy.
We’re going to involve some more of the senses first. Some you might not like this, and if so, skip it. If you don’t KNOW that’s the case, I urge you to try it.
Keep rubbing your clit in nice slow circles with one hand and bring the fingers that have been inside you up to your face. Look at them first, look at how they shine, glistening with your arousal. Rub your fingers together, feel how slippery it makes them, nature’s very own way of showing you’re made to be fucked, to be filled, and you’re designed so that it feels, amazing.
Now, smell yourself, do you like it? Others certainly will. If you’re feeling naughty, apply it like perfume to your neck. Imagine going out like this, those around you unconsciously breathing in your scent, the guys not understanding why they are getting hard (yes, this really can work).
Slip your fingers back down, ideally your middle one or two, back inside you, and listen. Listen to the sounds it makes when you fuck your aching cunt, hear how wet you are, and add to that sound, if you’re not already, some little moans of your own. It can be amazingly liberating (as long as you’ve got privacy) to make some noise, so try that, slide your fingers in and out and let out little moans of pleasure with each stroke. Maybe even pretend someone is listening and you’re doing it to turn them on, put on a little show as you fuck and rub and see if it turns you on even more too. Imagine that person, watching you even, and without embarrassment you just keep going, seeing the arousal in their eyes.
A little trip to your nipples can be good, sliding your wet finger tips over them, making them glisten as you pull them and watch your pinching fingers slip off them again and again.
Then back down inside you for another good fucking and rubbing to the edge, at which point I want you to bring your wet fingers to your mouth and suck them clean. Taste yourself, for some this is just super kinky, sucking your own pussy juices off your fingers as you masturbate. If you find you love it, make it a regular part of your play, guys adore it.
Time for toys
I mentioned in Part 1 that some toys would come into play. This is that time.
It’s really good NOT to use vibes sometimes, you can get over reliant on them and get to the point, especially with a partner, where you can’t orgasm without using one. But they are AMAZING too. You don’t need some huge hitachi wand, just a nice, powerful, discreet little bullet vibe is perfect to start with. My friend highly recommends the Rocks Off range and especially the 80mm USB chargeable one.
Electric toothbrushes are the closest you can get if you can’t buy a toy, but they’re noisy…
So, if your vibe has various levels, put it on low. If it doesn’t and it’s too powerful, you can put your folded up panties in between it and you for a bit until you get used to it.
Either way, run the tip of the vibe around, but not quite on, your clit, make slow circles and gradually work inwards so you’re running it up under your clit hood and caressing each side of your clit, then move it onto the tip and press it on. Hold it there as you feel yourself getting closer, and then ease off, repeat that a few times, seeing how much you can bear, varying the strength by turning it up, pressing it harder and removing layers blocking it.
When you can’t take much more of that, move to using it in the entrance of your pussy, running it around it, gently fucking it in and out, and if the design is appropriate, push it deeper to find your gspot.
If you can reach your gspot with it, (about a finger length inside your vagina on the tummy side, often a softier, spongier spot) then play there with it. A very common sign you’ve found it is the sudden urge to pee. This is not actually needing to pee, it’s another way your body can be aroused, but we’ll discuss that another time. For now, push past that peeing feeling, and enjoy how good it feels.
A lessor known trick if you have a vibe inside at that spot is with your other hand on the outside, push down just above your pelvic bone – gently push down and under it a little. It presses your -gspot, or near enough, down against the toy inside. Sometimes that can make it feel crazy good.
No cumming! Naughty!
So if you can manage more, use the vibe on your clit, but we’re going to add a final toy, a dildo of some kind. If you don’t own one then the hairbrush handle has been a substitute used for millennia by women in the know. (Just look at the designs of some of the handles in the stores and tell me the manufacturers aren’t wise to this…)
The tease with the dildo is just to fuck the tip, and no more, for a while. Keep the vibe going or stop it if you want to focus on the dildo alone, which can be good.
Now, with the dildo, I want you to do nine more short, shallow strokes, followed by one deep one.
That’s it, nice and deep, fucking right inside you. But just one!
Now, 8 more shallow strokes, and TWO deep ones.
Yes, you get it, 7 short, 3 deep…
6 short, 4 deep (it always adds to ten)…
Keep going until you get to enjoy ten deep strokes.
Get the vibe back on your clit or rub it, as you keep on fucking your desperate denied pussy with deep strokes all the time now, and give yourself one final excruciating edge.