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hi james, lucy again. thanks for your advice. i really appreciate it! i didn’t touch at all yesterday because of my mood, but i did end up spinning the punishment wheel today. i got pegs on my nipples + clit for 20 min. i must be a bit of a pain slut… i got wet almost immediately. i ended up teasing my clit w/ a light finger while the pegs were still on. gonna try and find little ways to keep my arousal up w/o overdoing it like last time. the pegs were a great start. ❤️ -lucy

Hi Lucy, I’m glad it was helpful. My experience is we’re all something of a […]

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Hi James, I’m not new to edging and I absolutely Love it. Recently I edged non-stop for 5hrs. I was so desperate and my clit was so sore after but I loved the feeling of being right on the edge and forcing myself to stay on it. I also edged the next day and I was still so achy. I like playing with my clit until it’s swollen and throbbing then doing it again the next day even rougher to make the ache stay. I love edging and hurting my little clitty more and more. What do you think, too much?

Honestly that’s really fucking hot, but unlike your vagina which is literally designed to take […]

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So you recently told a follower who said long term denial was making her depressed she should come, “unless it’s a punishment.” Don’t you think of a dom is giving a punishment that negatively affects the sub’s mental health, that’s a problem? Would you carry out that sort of punishment yourself? That seems like crossing a line between kink and abuse.

Good follow up question, thanks anon. This post is what anon is referring to: […]

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Lately I’ve been seeing people using toothpaste on their clit on here, praising how great it is, but that just isn’t enough for me. I just decided to use icy hot instead and it’s unbelievable. Something about not being able to get away from a good kind of pain that I chose to put myself through, since I always knew with toothpaste I could just wipe it off. This is better than I ever thought it could be, thanks for the idea (posted a while ago on this blog)! -KL

I almost forgot! I’ve been on no touch since applying it, and I’ve never been […]

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Hi James, pastey here (thank you for the nickname!) I thought I’d bring you another update! So yesterday I was on my fifth edge when I accidentally went over and didn’t manage to ruin it! So as punishment last night i put toothpaste on my clit and then put myself on no-touch. So I woke up at like 3 this morning with my hands in my pants about to cum, I did manage to ruin it! Can you give a new challenge? I don’t have a Dom and would love someone to control what I do!

Hi Pastey! Lovely to hear from you again! So, I think it’s time for an […]