Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

I just read your Club Edge post, and I love that idea. I am a lesbian, but I get off to the thought of men getting off to me or forcing them to have sex with me — not in like a weird rape-y way but in a kind of coercion kind of scenario like I could cum if I had sex with a guy or in a situation like this where they had to touch me for me to get something. I know I’m not bi because I’ve never been attracted to a guy, but the idea of this is still so hot to me

Thank you!  If you’re wondering what she’s talking about you won’t find it on Tumblr […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Can you have something be a kink but not a turn on? Some things, particularly the posts on a lot of pain, aren’t as interesting to me as others. I consented to letting my partner try some of these things on me though and it turned out I was really into it! But I still don’t enjoy the posts on it. Is that normal? Love, Collared Cat

Hello Cat, Some people aren’t turned on by something they see in porn or reading […]

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I think I like reading about denial more than actually being denied. I’ve tried denial with a partner, and it was really hot, and now alone, and that is hot too, but maybe… not hot enough to keep it up? I feel really bad about because I do like being denied short term, and having my pussy punished hard, but maybe I’m not a real denial slut. Quite a sad realisation: I actually prefer cumming. I feel like a disappointment.

Dear Anon, Life is too short to feel disappointed about what you like and don’t […]

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I’ve come to realize that I’m really turned on by the idea of being denied, but I have never had and don’t currently have a partner to try this with. I have several other kinks but I’ve never really engaged in any of them because I’m afraid that actively being into weird stuff will make me feel weird and insecure around people. I almost want to say it’s pointless to deny myself if nobody else is involved, but should I try doing this to myself?

Okay, let’s address your worry about ‘weird stuff making you feel weird and insecure around people’ […]