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JuNO – what’s a little ruin between friends?

Well what an encouraging response! Despite Tumblr’s best efforts it seems there are many still eager to participate, thanks everyone

I’m so proud of you all!

The first few days are often the hardest so today this is just a reminder to not push yourself too far. We aren’t trying to set records in how close and long you can stay at the edge of an orgasm. If anything, stay safe, don’t get too close, and just try to explore how edging without cumming at the end makes you feel.

What should be occuring over the next few days is those endorphins and other feel-good chemicals slowly start to drift around your system all the time. Without an orgasm releasing Prolactin (the chemical that settles you down after cumming) you will start to feel an ongoing ‘buzz’ – the ‘Denial High’ (sounds like a hot school…).

Don’t be thinking about the 30 days though, just think about today. We’re going to do this one day at a time. ‘I will not cum today. Good girls don’t cum’ can be your mantra. One day at a time, one edge at a time.

Don’t forget this is about having fun, so just relax, lay back and enjoy edging. There are hundreds of other denial sluts (and if you even start this you totally are a denial slut) doing this with you. So be strong, hold back.

Cumming is good, but not cumming is better. But a ruin is a good compromise!

But as we discussed, if you do go over you’re to ruin the orgasm. Some of you are more than familiar with these diabolical little things. It’s where you start to go over into an orgasm but stop any stimulation as soon as you do and never get the pleasure you’d expect.

If you’ve made it three days without cumming then a huge congratulations. That’s so great!

You’re going to be allowed an orgasm!

A ruined orgasm.

Oh but if you’ve already gone over and HAD a ruined orgasm during JuNO, well sorry, that’s yours used up already. You just get to know that lots of others are having their ruiins.

Here is everything you need to learn about ruined orgasms:

Sadly on bdsmlr as tumblr broke all my tags (sad face)

https://edgingspace.bdsmlr.com/search/ruined%20orgasms

70 posts. You must review them while edging before you can go back to those first ones and actually ruin an orgasm according to the instructions.

It’s optional though, if you want to just stay with edging, that’s great too.

Let us know how your ruins go, they vary so much, it’ll be fascinating for us all. How did it feel, how hard was it, how did it make YOU feel, physically and emotionally, and how did it effect your arousal over time?

Let us know how you get on!

Enjoy the ruin!

James

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Here’s JuNO!

Welcome to JuNO 2019!

It’s been so lovely to get so many messages about JuNO. Who knew that this spur of the moment idea a couple of years ago would catch on so much! But heck, those guys have Locktober right, we need our own female orgasm denial month and here we are!

Along with Tumblrgeddon last December I’ve had a crazy few months so this is the perfect opportunity to get back into daily blogging and also telling you about some exciting new things I’ve been working on! 

The first of these is an update on my somewhat legendary Wheels of Denial! Not only has Tumblr deleted most of them, but I used Google shortcuts to create them before, and guess what other service got cancelled – yep. So those are kinda fucked.

But what is a much cooler replacement I’ve found an app that works on both Android and iPhone. So watch out for that soon, as you’re going to have your own chance to be fate’s bitch.

Gotta get a bdsmlr…

Because Tumblr’s banned adult content now if you really like my captions and explicit stuff to edge to you’re going to have to make a dive into my bdsmlr account, which I’m going to be posting to, and also has ALL my back content in for you to get off to.

https://edgingspace.bdsmlr.com/

They have an app now too, it’s still in beta and android only I think but it means you can browse without it being in your browser history.

Keeping it all positive

As I said last year I want this to be a fun and very positive exercise. We’re not going to have any punishments if you fail, although there will be ‘funishments’ along the way. The whole point of it is to give you the chance to push yourself to explore edging and denial, and know that there are lots of other denial sluts on the journey with you. (Seriously, how hot is that…)

It’s easy for there to be too much pressure to try and get to the 30 days, and a feeling of failure for all those who didn’t manage it – and while a month is ‘easy’ for some of you experienced denial sluts, it’s eternity for anyone new to this.

So here’s the deal – The whole of June is going to be dedicated to exploring edging and denial, but you decide what your target is.

So if you’re new to this, you may just try it for a day or three, and then cum! Oh but you’re not done, no… if you enjoyed it, try again, maybe longer, give a go to some of the tasks, chat with others doing it, see just how far down the rabbit hole you enjoy falling.

The objective for JuNO is to do as many edges as you can while having as few orgasms as possible – if you’re feeling happy and horny, it’s working!

You are free to amend any of the basic rules to suit your situation, but try to decide what you’re going to do, and stick with it!

I very much want this to be a communal thing so I strongly encourage you to start a ‘JuNO denial journal’ on your Tumblr and I’ll post as many of them here as I can. 

Tag everything you post about it with #juno2019

If you are keeping a JuNO Journal please add #junojournal to the post too

You can ‘sign up’ if you wish to. But you can also like and reblog this note as an indicator you are getting involved..

Also totally encourage others to join in! The more the merrier.

As regularly as I can I’m going to add some JuNO Tasks, I’ll be reblogging and commenting on my favourite JuNO Journals, and also adding plenty of educational content. I’ll try and queue these up for most days but this isn’t like the Denial Advent event, the onus is on you to keep on edging, share with the community and make this something we all explore together.

JuNO – The Basic Rules

  1. The aim is to orgasm as little as you can for the 30 days, while you deliberately make yourself as horny as possible by regular ‘edging’
  2. You are to edge yourself every day with my recommended minimum of three times a day, once before you get up, once last thing in bed, and once during the day – but more edges is great, decide what works for you – life might mean you often do less, that’s fine.
  3. You are to have fun. If you’re not having fun you’re not doing it right
  4. If you accidentally go over the edge into an orgasm before your target date, you must immediately stop all stimulation and so ‘ruin’ the orgasm. If you ruin the orgasm like this you are still on course – but you musn’t ruin again that day and you must try your hardest not to at all (ruins will be given as separate, extra tasks, at points in JuNO).
  5. JuNo is for women (and their partners) and those who identify themselves as such. Sorry boys, I know you love this stuff but you already have Locktober, NOvember and more. This is a ‘girls together’ kinda thing but feel free to try it, just please don’t be messaging me about it, thank you xxx
  6. If you’re late to the party you can start when you want, just follow the tag below to get all the relevant notes and instructions.

And here for any others https://www.tumblr.com/tagged/juno2019 all across the Tumblrsphere!

Definitions

To clarify what an edge is within the context of denial – it is ANY masturbation effort during your denial. It does not matter if you get to THE edge of an orgasm (although it’s great if you can and definitely a goal), as long as it feels good and makes you hornier, it’s an edge.

This also means you can’t do all your edges in one go, just getting to the edge of an orgasm and ‘bouncing there’ a dozen times does not mean you’ve done 12 edges. It’s one, sorry! My month, my rules. You need at least a ten minute gap between reaching the edge of an orgasm and getting yourself back there for it to count again towards your total (Just in case some of you want to go crazy and do lots of edges).

But the main point of JuNo is to just keep horny, have fun, and experience, I hope, the feeling of euphoria associated with longer term denial (the ‘denial high’). It’s also to help you gain greater self-confidence, sexual positivity and to discover, I hope, that you do actually have some self-control!

This is not a competition – it’s a collaborative experience. So please, post updates on your blogs, send me submissions and asks with updates. Anything that I think is of interest will get posted, if it’s positive or negative, share your experience.

Let’s support each other my lovely followers. There are 55,000 of you horny little fuckers following this blog and I know for a fact at least the same who visit every month and get off to it.

Now’s the time, turn the fantasy into a reality. Join in with thousands of women across the world edging and denying their orgasms, not just because it’s kinky and sexy as fuck, but because it makes you feel AMAZING.

So are you ready, my little denial slut? Are you ready to make your pussy drip, your clit ache and show us all just what you’re capable of?

Yes?

IT IS! Let’s do this!

Enjoy the last might of your freedom (if you have it…), it’s the last time you cum just when you want to. Edge, read this blog, browse last year’s experiences, think about what target  you are going to set, and sign up here if that’ll add to the fun:

https://forms.gle/gEAdTGfA8uNajMhy7

Once you’ve filled that out or committed to doing this however you want…

Put your hand in your panties, right now. Rub that clit and say out loud, ‘I promise not to cum. I am a denial slut’.

Good girl, no going back now. Give me a good edge and get ready for more…

Welcome to JuNO, it’s going to be one hell of a ride!

James

#juno2019

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