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Hi there! I hooked up with a guy last night and I’ve only had sex once before so I’m very tight and when we were hooking up it was very painful and I had to ask him to stop because it hurt to much and was too tight. Do you have any ideas how I can make the next time more enjoyable and comfortable? We definitely had enough foreplay so I’m not sure what else I can do. Any advice would help xx

Relaxing and practising, those are the two magic ingredients, and thankfully practising helps you relax! […]

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Dear Sir, I have a spetated hymen. :( this makes it hard to impossible to use the fun ben-wa balls I bought. I know I have to get the surgery for it, but I’m terrified of going under. Sir how can I make this a positive? (For those unaware: A spetated Hymen is when your hymen had a piece that strtches across the middle. it doesn’t stretch as well and can prevent the easy removal of a tampon. You can break it during intercourse but it best to have a gyno surgery.)

Hi there. I’m sorry to hear that, I’m sure that’s very frustrating. I’m not medically […]