Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

I am so glad you found your asks. I thought mine was lost in cyber space. Based on your description I’m certain I’m getting a hard edge and not a ruin. I was concerned because I have given my Dom control of my orgasms (gladly) and while I knew it wasn’t a full orgasm, I couldn’t properly describe what I was feeling. Since we are LDR he couldn’t really help me figure it out. I have been very good at keeping a soft edge, but now I know the difference I can try for hard edges again!

Thank you. It wasn’t that I didn’t get the messages it’s just it didn’t show […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

when i ruin my orgasms, i don’t feel horny afterwards, if anything i feel more horny after regular orgasms. also, whenever i try to hard edge, even when i back off as soon as i start to feel an orgasm build it just feels like a ruin and i’m too sensitive to continue edging afterwards. should i just stick to soft edges because it doesn’t seem to be doing anything for me at all

Hi Anon,  Ruined orgasms really do vary from person to person, so this is okay, […]