Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James, Idk if you can answer this question but lately when I’m edging the only way for me to stop myself going over is to squirt a little bit (or sometimes a lot). It’s like I have to release the pressure somehow. I’m mostly fine with it but I am a little concerned that I have so little control over it. Do you or your followers have any tips on how to not squirt if you don’t want to? Thanks and have a great day!

That’s a new one on me but I can see the logic of it. There […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hello James! I just read your answer to an ask about your relationship with your wife. And I couldn’t help but wonder about this: “We have four way restraints permanently attached to our bed”. I don’t know how old your kids are but I would think they’d get pretty curious. In general I just wonder how you keep your kids from noticing everything.

They tuck away! It’s not like, ‘Dad, what’s this for?’ ‘Erm, in case we get four […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Can you have something be a kink but not a turn on? Some things, particularly the posts on a lot of pain, aren’t as interesting to me as others. I consented to letting my partner try some of these things on me though and it turned out I was really into it! But I still don’t enjoy the posts on it. Is that normal? Love, Collared Cat

Hello Cat, Some people aren’t turned on by something they see in porn or reading […]