Tag : feedback

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it bothers me that you use reaction gifs of children as an adult orientated blog.

You know they can’t see what’s on the blog, right?

They’re looking out, at you…

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Hey :) I’m the one who asked you how to get over the “love of my life.” I don’t know how much it means, but your response was more than I had ever thought. It really cheered me up and gave me a very new perspective. It’s day 3 of me feeling so much better about the break up. I’m working on a new app, I’m spending more time with friends and we just scheduled our next trip for work in a couple of weeks. I’m getting a tattoo today and I’m feeling really good about it. Thank you so much <3 -Lizzy

Hi Lizzy, it means a huge amount, so thank you.

I’m so glad my response cheered you up and gave you a new view on things, I couldn’t have hoped for more. 

Well apart from the tattoo saying: 

Only kidding (I’m not, totally do that)

But really, thank you so much for the lovely feedback, I’m so glad I was able to help.

May the best of your past be the worst of your future.


Hi! I have been a long time follower, (on a different account) but I’ve finally made a pervert account! So now I can proclaim my love for Orgasm Denial! Thanks, for tuning me into a orgasm denial slut! Though, I’m not really all that good at edging XD, but still, thanks! Also, just gotta say, you totally got me into hypno Thanks ~Addy

‘Pervert account’ – nice! There should be an option in the settings ‘flag this as a pervert account’

Then it’d really know what to prioritise for ‘best stuff first’

You’re so welcome, Addy. Thanks for the feedback!

hey James, I was just wandering, how many asks do you get?

A lot. But I try to get back to as many as I possibly can.

Remember you’re way more likely to get me to reply if:

  • What you’re asking is going to interest or be relevant to others (i.e. we love detail)
  • You make me laugh
  • You give me a name to call you or aren’t anonymous 
  • You send boobs 
  • You don’t ask me things answered ten times already
  • You appear to at least try to use punctuation (never a problem if English isn’t your first language though)
  • You offer me free stuff
  • Fate smiles on you and I happen to have enough time to answer

Stuff that I and followers really love include:

  • Updates to advice or situations I’ve replied to before
  • Testimonials of how denial has affected you
  • Sharing your fantasies
  • Pictures of your toys or you
  • Real life experiences you’ve had, good or bad
  • Sex ed questions that you want a real, but kinky response to
  • Edging reports
  • Denial buddy experiences or how it works as a couple
  • Asks mentioning how my blog has changed your life and it’s the best thing you’ve ever read
  • Recommendations of other posts you think I should share (you guys hardly ever do this but it’s appreciated)

If you send me an anonymous ask which is just saying something like, ‘Hey I’m horny can I cum’ then it’s really unlikely I’ll answer (if you have a cute blog and risk doing that by message however, that’s a very different story – bravery is rewarded).

But please please, don’t ever take it as a personal rejection if I don’t get back to an ask you send. I appreciate them all I just don’t have enough time to get back to all of them.

I hope you enjoyed your walk and that answers your question!


(That ddlg sexualizes children is Clear to you, yea?)

Oh good lord. 

Firstly, if you think that calling someone ‘Daddy’ is even close to serious DDLG (’daddy dom, little girl’ in kink speak) then holy shit you are in for a surprise when you browse the internet. 

Secondly, grow the fuck up. Calling a partner ‘Daddy’ is pretty damn common. I’m sorry you don’t like it (and as it turns out it does little for me either) but good grief, are you really that uptight that you’re bothering to complain, anonymously I might add, to me just about what one consenting adult calls another? And beyond that, drawing a parallel to paedophilia in your comment? 

Thirdly, in my experience the whole ddlg thing sexualises adults, not children. In my dabbling with just the concept of being a ‘daddy dom’ I essentially found it to be like my normal domming, ‘but just the nice stuff’. A bit boring if you ask me but lovely to provide a safe, loving space for a sub who could find comfort in that element of regression it brought. There was NO sense of it being trying to pretend she was underage, that’s not what it was about at all, it was about creating that nurturing, safe connection between us, and yes, it tapped into my fatherly instincts in interesting ways that my normal domming, meaner and more sadistic, rarely does.

I also asked Cupcake for her input, and just to tell you the two of them are very mature adults in their 30s and 40s. Her comment was, ‘The daddy thing is interesting, it surprised both of us, but once we discovered it, it was just so right. 

We both have busy, responsibility filled lives, we are each others escape, he gets control, I get to give up control, things we both need.’

So there you go, no it’s not clear to me at all, and ultimately what two consenting adults get up to is pretty much up to them in my book and on this blog. It’s right for them, how about you mind your own business and let them decide what they like and need. (yea?)

In addition to your last post: And it’s sooooo frustrating to hear a “no“… best feeling in the world

I found your new porn…

(But yes, it’s just as hot to say it, trust me!)

#Dpnom: losing concept of time so 1 minute feels like 5 or even 10 and it feels like you’ve been holding that edge forever. And also so you feel like it’s been forever waiting for a reply when really you literally only just sent the message in the first place.

Oh I love your Denial Problems No One Mentions

Keep them coming you sexy beasts!


I’m so in love with the Denial Academy, please let there be more 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

Oh there’s lots more if it seems people like it! I love getting feedback, as messages or just likes and reblogs! Show the love you horny little followers.