Blog Post I’ve come to realize that I’m really turned on by the idea of being denied, but I have never had and don’t currently have a partner to try this with. I have several other kinks but I’ve never really engaged in any of them because I’m afraid that actively being into weird stuff will make me feel weird and insecure around people. I almost want to say it’s pointless to deny myself if nobody else is involved, but should I try doing this to myself? November 30, 2015 by jamesfod Okay, let’s address your worry about ‘weird stuff making you feel weird and insecure around people’ […]