Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

hi James, i denied my boyfriend from coming this past sunday knowing full well i wasn’t going to see him until thanksgiving. since then we’ve decided (him not knowing about denial/edging/etc.) that neither of us is going to come until the wednesday before thanksgiving (the next time we’ll see each other) and having never denied myself, let alone someone else for this long is exciting to me. i’m also god awful at edging so chances are i will be avoiding touching myself all together…. ~elise

Hi Elise, That’s awesome, dual denial is so much fun! If he hasn’t done it […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James. My BF & I are new to D/s. We switch & want to try orgasm denial for me. But I get really grumpy if I don’t get an orgasm at the end of teasing, we want to at least experience me going a week or two without orgasm, with a few teasing sessions in that time. But currently my grumpy reaction to denial makes it no fun. Do you have any tips for me, or him, to help mitigate my grumpiness or somehow start to shift my mindset more positively when it comes to denial? We really enjoy your blog!

Don’t try for a week, let alone two. Set yourself the achievable target of a […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

A denial confession – usual story of sex life with hubby gone flat after kids. My libidos been higher than his so got into tumblr and found your blog and have been denying myself on and off for a few months. LOVE IT, ty so much. My arousals sparked hubby’s, plus all the blowjobs I’ve offered him lol Even tried the pussy juice as perfume and defintely affected him! For Valentine’s I bought him a cock cage! We’ve both been edging and denying and our sex life is transformed in just a month (1/2?)

and thanks for the keephimcaged blog recommendation – inspired me, and him! Honestly we can’t […]