Hi anon, That’s the basic principle, yes. A ruined orgasm is one where you take […]
Tag: denial definitions
What’s difference between edging and ruining? How would it do differently for women and men?
Ruining is when you go over the ‘point of no return’ into an orgasm but stop […]
What’s the difference between denial sluts and denial bitches? Asking because I need to know which category I fall in to.
Denial sluts is the name I’ve given for anyone who loves edging and denial (not […]
Whats the difference between a soft edge and a hard edge?
A soft edge is where you never let yourself get close enough that you could […]
In your esteemed opinion, does ‘no touch’ just mean the clit? Or are the cunt, ass, and nipples excluded too? The wheel of punishment put me on no touch for a day but I was looking forward to using my kegel balls today for exercises. Any feedback from the denial guru would be much appreciated. Love the blog! – K
More definitions from the denial guru! No touch – your pussy is out of bounds, […]
Hi. I wondered, what do you call someone who loves seeing women/people in general denied, and/or loves denying women/people in general? I mean, we’ve got denial bitch. But that’s not necessarily the person doing the denying. Get my drift? Like Lee’s and Ler’s. Denial slut and Denial… ?
Okay, let’s get some denial definitions out there: Denial Slut – someone who loves the […]
Hi James wife is working on the advent calendar. We are debating as to what constitutes as a proper edge. I seem to recall something about counting to 100. Could you please elaborate! Anon please
Definitions differ, but for me ‘an edge’ is simply one session of masturbation without cumming. Simple […]
Hi James, You often mention edging on suction cup dildos, or any dildo, without touching the clit. As someone who can’t cum without clitoral stimulation, how would I go about edging on a dildo? It feels great but at what point would it be called an edge? – Ira
Great question Ira! The way I use it is pretty general, ‘an edge’ is ANY masturbation […]