Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

when i ruin my orgasms, i don’t feel horny afterwards, if anything i feel more horny after regular orgasms. also, whenever i try to hard edge, even when i back off as soon as i start to feel an orgasm build it just feels like a ruin and i’m too sensitive to continue edging afterwards. should i just stick to soft edges because it doesn’t seem to be doing anything for me at all

Hi Anon,  Ruined orgasms really do vary from person to person, so this is okay, […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Regarding the lesbian vs. wlw thing. I’m bisexual. I have male and female play partners. I have male and female sex partners. I’ve never heard of the term “wlw” and I’m perfectly happy to be called a leabian when seen with a female partner. Its what I am in that moment and no word is going to acurately describe how I look for male play partners but female sexpartners perfectly. I am what I am and if I allow no person to changr that no word is going to either.

A really good attitude, I agree. If only we could all feel the same life […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

a lot of people prefer using “wlw” instead of “lesbian” to describe any instance of women dating/having sex/etc because it is more inclusive of bisexuality and pansexuality (describing a woman in a relationship with another woman as a lesbian without knowing if she is Actually a lesbian is…. not great, and potential bi erasure can be avoided by using wlw). of course many people differ in preference but i thought i’d explain the difference if you werent sure

Okay yes, I know, and thank you all for the (multiple) messages explaining this, you’re […]