Tag : ddlg

My daddy is making me keep a vibrator on low on my pussy while I go on a hook up app to find a pussy for me to lick. And I’m not allowed to stop until I get a match and start a conversation. I can barely take it oh my god

I do wonder what people who are new to kink think of posts like these…

Her dad does WHAT?!

She doesn’t mean her actual dad, well, okay we can’t know that for sure but we all pretend that’s definitely what it means, right?

(That ddlg sexualizes children is Clear to you, yea?)

Oh good lord. 

Firstly, if you think that calling someone ‘Daddy’ is even close to serious DDLG (’daddy dom, little girl’ in kink speak) then holy shit you are in for a surprise when you browse the internet. 

Secondly, grow the fuck up. Calling a partner ‘Daddy’ is pretty damn common. I’m sorry you don’t like it (and as it turns out it does little for me either) but good grief, are you really that uptight that you’re bothering to complain, anonymously I might add, to me just about what one consenting adult calls another? And beyond that, drawing a parallel to paedophilia in your comment? 

Thirdly, in my experience the whole ddlg thing sexualises adults, not children. In my dabbling with just the concept of being a ‘daddy dom’ I essentially found it to be like my normal domming, ‘but just the nice stuff’. A bit boring if you ask me but lovely to provide a safe, loving space for a sub who could find comfort in that element of regression it brought. There was NO sense of it being trying to pretend she was underage, that’s not what it was about at all, it was about creating that nurturing, safe connection between us, and yes, it tapped into my fatherly instincts in interesting ways that my normal domming, meaner and more sadistic, rarely does.

I also asked Cupcake for her input, and just to tell you the two of them are very mature adults in their 30s and 40s. Her comment was, ‘The daddy thing is interesting, it surprised both of us, but once we discovered it, it was just so right. 

We both have busy, responsibility filled lives, we are each others escape, he gets control, I get to give up control, things we both need.’

So there you go, no it’s not clear to me at all, and ultimately what two consenting adults get up to is pretty much up to them in my book and on this blog. It’s right for them, how about you mind your own business and let them decide what they like and need. (yea?)

Hi there, Sir! Just out of curiosity, are you into DD/LG? I love your blog by the way! ❤️

Thanks so much! 

I’m not really, I can see it’s cute and I actually quite like the Daddy Dom scenario (which I’d define as domming but keeping it almost all positive and obviously fatherly). And I have tried it out. But, having kids myself it just weirds me out to be called ‘Daddy’ or act too much in that way. 

Also, I’m too much of a sadist to want to be that nice all the time.

My daddy is a big fan of your blog, he made me edge 10 times yesterday, may I cum today? I’ve edged 10-times again tonight

Look I’m delighted your dad is a fan but I feel a bit odd getting involved. Okay I’ll say it, I’m straight up uncomfortable. 

I’m all for father-daughter bonding but you I’m not sure him setting your edges is really appropriate. 

Have you tried camping?

No, no NO! Not THAT type of camping! OMG what are you like? This type:

How do you feel about people calling you daddy

Interesting question. Until about six months ago I really wasn’t into it at all. But since then I’ve had a friend who one day dropped the D bomb on me, ‘You won’t freak out if I call you Daddy sometimes?’ and that opened my eyes to teh possibilities. 

But even then I’m really not strongly into the conventional Daddy Dom and little girl thing, it’s more that it’s been a way for me to focus on the positive and protective side of dominance, which is quite natural for me (I’m actually a very kind, caring person, I just happen to love keeping women horny, aching and wet and have a talent for evil mind fucks and sadistic games).

So yes, how do I feel about it? From the right person, I like it, from others, it makes me deeply uncomfortable.