Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi even sending this is a huge step for me so I hope you can help. I’m a committed Christian and feel very weird even thinking about sex and I don’t know if that’s just me or what I’ve been taught but I also really want to be a good lover to a future husband but I don’t know how to learn that. Should I just wait until I get married and figure it out with him or do you think edging would help? A friend told me to write to you I hope it’s okay.

Hi there anon, well done being brave and asking, it’s a really important question. I […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hiya James! I’m responding to the whole “anal only religious conviction” thing and the song. I don’t want to have sex out of wedlock but I also love my boyfriend and want him to have his fun. So I’ve been having only anal sex for quite awhile. At first it hurt a lot but if I include my clit I really enjoy it; every girl should try it at some point! I can’t cum from it normally so I don’t have many orgasms. I don’t actually think my bf knows this is denial but hey, good girls don’t cum, right?

And what a good girl you are! I don’t know why this makes me so […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Christian Denial Slut here!!! My fiance and I are totally doing what the first anon fantasised about! I deny him too and we even bought a cock cage which he wears when we spend intimate time together so we’re not tempted to go too far!!! Thought you’d love hearing that. I’ve gone from very naive and ignorant to being so excited about sex and wanting to try everything! Also it’s forcing us to go slow so we’re enjoying ever bit of it. So thank you from us both!!!! Hannah

Thank you Hannah, I DO love hearing that. I’d have loved us to discover cock […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

In response to the Christian anon post. Yes! I make denial work with my faith. It’s a fantastic way to acknowledge and celebrate that I am a sexual being, and was made that way, while not jumping ahead of myself and getting involved with just anyone. No judgement for people whose sexuality is much more open, but it’s not right for me, and in the meantime, teasing, edging, and denial have really helped me reach a good level of personal knowledge and integration.

This is great, I love that we can talk about this, and thank you, the […]