Tag : chastity-belts

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Hey James, any chance you know of any affordable but good female chastity belts? Thank you!

The quick answer is, yep… it looks like this…


The Unchastity Belt from The Duchy – great bondage instruction site

I know, I know you want all steel and shiny and lockable but here’s the problem. Your ass is amazing. And really bendy. And locking up your pussy is surprisingly difficult. 

So unlike men, who’s chastity cages are a simple ring around the balls and snap on a lock, it’s very hard to make a good female chastity belt. And as such good ones cost hundreds of dollars, and even then they will only work for some women’s shapes.

There are cheap ones like this from Lovehoney which is £30 but, it’s plastic and not very effective at all.


You know how horny you get, is that going to stop your fingers slipping in, nuhuh.

So that’s why rope is a good cheap option, because I know it doesn’t lock shut but if you put on a good crotch rope it acts as solid first barrier to you touching, plus it rubs your clit like crazy and drives you nuts.

There is an interesting middle ground that you might want to try, a chain crotch rope.

Firstly, this never, ever, ever goes on your bare pussy, Got that? Unless it’s specially designed (like the ones used in underwear) chain is pinchy as fuck and should only ever go over clothing – but that works to lock the knickers on you so it’s actually quite effective.


And also these links are too big, you want a finer chain with smaller links. But it illustrates the idea of putting it over your knickers. There are some chains designed not to pinch, so look out for those, they type used in choke collars and dog leads for example, but they often aren’t long enough.

The easiest way to do it is with a single length of chain and a small padlock. The chain goes around your waist from the front, and when its’ a snug fit you put the padlock hasp through the first link and the one that’s come around to the front (but don’t lock yet) and then thread the chain under you, over the top of the chain ‘belt’ part behind, and back between your legs again, adjusting the fit and locking the padlock through the three links, the first one, the one end of the belt one and finally the chain returning from between your legs.

Alternatively two lengths of chain, one for your belt and one for underneath like the picture above, needing two padlocks.

You want thicker underwear than this really, and boyshort cut are useful too as it protects your thighs, but all that aside, this can work surprisingly well. 

You do of course have to untie it to pee, or you can awkwardly pull them to the side. If you want something that keeps you locked and still lets you pee then you’ll need to splash out on a proper belt.

There are chastity belts you can get for about $50-80 from China nowadays, and some of those might be good but it’s a lot of money for something that’s going to be very hit and miss and you can’t return.

If you’re willing to risk it though there’s a good selection on Aliexpress, such as this one:

Which is a better looking design than others I’ve seen.

Anyway I hope some of that helps. It really is frustrating that there aren’t good cheap options as there are for cock cages but it’s a far more complicated thing to get a genuinely effective chastity belt for women.

Try the rope, try the chains over panties, see how you get on. That might be enough, but if not do your research and you might be able to find something cheap that’ll work great for you. If you do, let us know!

Is it possible to edge while in chastity?

I assume you mean a chastity belt. It isn’t supposed to be, that’s the difference between denial and chastity, you aren’t supposed to have any access in the latter. But, yeah, sure it is.

You can press on a powerful wand vibe and get the vibrations through the belt for starters.

Some women find that being denied access to their clit makes their breasts much more sensitive, and so playing with your breasts and nipples extensively, especially the way it makes you even hornier, can get you close to an edge. Nipplegasms are even a thing.

Also, depending what arouses you and what access the belt gives you, you’ll have one or two holes you can fuck. You should be doing that, a lot. Read up on ‘anal only’ as a thing and if that turns you on, you way well find you can edge just with fantasy and ass fucking.

Speaking of which, some women can edge from JUST fantasy. Explore some good hypno tapes and videos, see where that takes you.

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I thought some of you would love this post I found on Reddit. 

I’ve held a couple of women’s keys before – easily done long distance by replacing the padlocks with a combination lock that only I see the code to. Knowing it’s a minimum three days in it when you click it closed is quite the mindfuck.

When I underline the word ‘minimum’ on day three though, that’s when it really kicks in. Something this caption captured nicely.

Be careful what you wish for.

Thanks for this, very impressive. However chains are mean little fuckers and can grab onto any loose bits with a vengeance – so I do recommend having the panties UNDER the chain if you find you’re getting lots of pinched bits.

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How does one pee with a chastity belt?


But really, as you’ll see, most of them have a gap to pee through, and a bigger one to poop. The ones with just a mesh aren’t really practical in my opinion, too much wiping up too often. But for most instances having some wetwipes by the loo will see you through the day.

The mesh is often on for lots of the photos but it’s a pain to pee through…

A bidet is a huge bonus if you’re seriously getting into chastity play though. Otherwise a quick shower rinse if things don’t go to plan is essential.

The truth is most female chastity belts suck. They are a hot concept, and can look amazing, but it’s just too hard to get a good fit and actually prevent you getting your fingers in, vs the annoying elements of comfort and using the toilet. 

If you’re hugely into the idea then they’re definitely worth a go, but if you want it to be a real, long term option, you’re looking for a custom built, super expensive option, and even then it’s not easy.

Cocks however, cage those fuckers up goooood for about £35

Yep, us guys actually win that one, if having your family jewels locked up is winning (it is for some!)

James, I caned my partner last night, and reamed out his ass good and proper. Afterwards, as I was masturbating, while he stayed locked in his cage, I orgasmed twice listening to him tell me I wouldn’t be allowed to cum again for a long time after tonight. #BackInDenial -JS

Well fuck me, how’s that for switchy. I love it!

Good work JS

We should really lock you up to make sure though. 

Better safe and sorry. 

You can always both buy four digit combination locks and I’ll look after the codes.

You can trust me…