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A note to those taking part in juNO



A couple of days ago I had to ruin an orgasm after accidentily going over. There is nothing wrong with that but I always strive for perfection and because I had slipped and wobbled, I felt like i’d failed. I see now I didn’t fail.

This challenge is teaching me so many new things and bringing out a side of me I didn’t know existed. It’s hopefully paving the way for longer periods of denial and a better sex life. It’s teaching me self-control and that it’s okay to stumble and fall sometimes but you have to get back up and continue.

I didn’t do my third edge tonight (or final 50 pussy smacks) Its kid #1’s birthday tomorrow so I spent a chunk of time wrapping presents this evening. Then kid #3 decided that midnight was time to get up and threw the tantrum from hell when I said no. Its now 2.15am, i’m too tired and i’ve got a busy day tomorrow. Normally, i’d think of something as simple as not completing the minimum edges as a failure. But it’s not. It’s just family life getting in the way of sex life. I won’t feel like i’ve disappointed anyone.

I’ve read a couple of blog posts from fellow juNO sluts, it seems like there’s a few of us stumbling and falling. This challenge isn’t about winning, its about exploration. If you have to ruin an orgasm, that’s okay. Don’t feel like edging? Don’t.

We’re all horny, dripping, messes so we’re going right somewhere.

Keep dripping!


Girl, you were the one who told me ruins are better than going over, and now you’ve felt dissapointed because you had one? 😛 I know it’s a challenge, but we’re doing it for ourselves, not other people, so the only one who could get disappointed is you. However there’s no need to feel that way, as ruins are clearly allowed. And you’re still having fun, that’s the most important thing about this challenge. Same with not being able to edge three times a day – everyone has a life apart from here, and it’s understandable someone can have no time or not be in the mood. Even if you’ve failed the challenge – which is something you’re not even close to, because I read your updates and I can see how good you’re handling it – you can always start again.

Just a little bit of encouragement from me to all the JuNO girls 🙂

“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.” – Winston Churchill

“You build on failure. You use it as a stepping stone. Close the door on the past. You don’t try to forget the mistakes, but you don’t dwell on it. You don’t let it have any of your energy, or any of your time, or any of your space.” – Johnny Cash

“It’s not how far you fall, but how high you bounce that counts.” – Zig Ziglar

“Failure is so important. We speak about success all the time. It is the ability to resist failure or use failure that often leads to greater success. I’ve met people who don’t want to try for fear of failing.” – J.K. Rowling

“When we give ourselves permission to fail, we, at the same time, give ourselves permission to excel.” – Eloise Ristad

“Better failure than regret” – Me

JuNO – Official Sign Up for the 30 Day Denial Challenge

Okay, firstly those notes on the JuNO challenge pozt are the best I’ve ever got, you guys are fabulous. Seriously, go read them.


But I also know (and LOVE) that a lot of you gals follow the blog from tumblrs you don’t want to add likes from (because everyone else thinks you’re so cute and innocent but we know different) or don’t even have a tumblr at all.

SO, because it’d be great to get a better idea of who’s signing up I’ve created a little, totally optionally anonymous, sign up form.

Even if you’ve signed up on the post below, do this too if you have a moment, it’s fun!

Sign up to JuNO – the 30 Day Denial Challenge



I loved the bra task from the other day, I wore a skinny thin top to the library and no bra and actually earned an orgasm – but didn’t take it. I hope that makes you happy! Do you have any more tasks like this, I also think I love being teased about my small breasts, can you include that too? Thank youuuuuu. Love the blog so much!


Well thank you, that’s quite impressive, even more so you didn’t even take the reward!

Okay, so a task involving breast size teasing and exhibitionism… How’s this, one for anyone who fancies it to join in.

The Exhibitionist Breast Teasing Denial Slut Challenge

(Well there’s a catchy title)

You are to edge yourself for at least half an hour before you begin the task.

Then write ‘I’m a denial slut’ above your bare breasts
and ‘female-orgasm-denial.tumblr.com’ below them. (Yes I’m going to use your tits to promote the blog). Sharpies or lipstick are the usual medium used.

Take a picture and submit it via this link:


I’m hoping others will too. Because I’ll then pick my favourite photo and that person gets to cum, but everyone else will get ruined orgasms, or no touch or whatever I decide (some tits are going to get tortured, I’m warning you now). I’m going to be mean. I’m going to find any reason I can to NOT let you cum.

You can include your face or not as you wish. Remember if you’re trying to be anonymous to do it against a background that won’t give you away either. I will keep ALL entries anonymous unless you tell me not to – but you can be anonymous on the submission form if you do it via the website and log out first. Just stick in any fake email. But all entries will get posted to the blog – this is for exhibitionists after all, and I’m going to find a reason why you don’t get to cum – so you better get off on being teased like that, in front of thousands of readers.

If the whole idea of this is getting you wet, I dare you to enter. If it isn’t, that’s totally cool too. This kind of exhibitionism/degradation thing is a huge kink for some and others understandably hate it.

Oh and if you enter… you’re not allowed to cum until I’ve made my decision.

I’ll decide a winner in a few days time, but might announce losers as we go along, so hurry up. Enter today!

Thank you for all the submissions so far, who knew so many women wanted to be teased about their breasts (I did, that’s why I did this).

I’ll be giving my verdict on all the submissions tomorrow and handing out the rewards or punishments, so watch this space, and get your submission in if you still want to before then!

I’ve been on a trip with a friend for 8 days now, with 2 more to go. I’ve edged once everyday, and its left me soooo needy. My thoughts are constantly dirty, and all I can think about is cumming. Please may I cum now?

No, but tomorrow you can… with your friend’s permission.

Yes, that’s right, you have to ask them.

If you’re clever, this is easier than you think.