Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

hi james, i need some advice! i recently started experimenting with anal, wearing a small buttplug, which i enjoy greatly! (i have never gotten closer to cumming so fast like when wearing it and playing with my clit). but wearing it makes other penetration extremely uncomfortable, even borderline painful. do you have any tips to help with that? or am i just doomed to never be fully stuffed?

Okay, good question. So let’s just have a sideways look at what’s going on here: […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Sir, I’ve been interested in anal play for a while, but idk how to go about it. I know I’ll need lots of lube, but that’s about it. What should I start with? How can I keep my asshole clean if I eventually fuck my partner? How can I work my way up without having to angle my arm/hand in weird and eventually tiring and cramping positions? Basically Anal Play 101, is what I’m looking for. Please, Sir, is really like to know and the internet has too many options that can get confusing. Love, Ivy

These are excellent questions! Lots of lube is a good tip but even before that, […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi, how are you? Last week I decided to try long term denial. I edge & put some toothpaste on my clit in the morning before heading to my morning lecture, then at lunch I go to the bathroom & edge, then again that night. Don’t worry, it’s not distracting. I do this thing where if I don’t take enough notes in class, I lose my bedtime edge. It’s frustrating, but it motivates me to do better next time. Do you know of anything else I can do to keep myself horny & desperate during class? Thank you!

That’s brilliant, I love hearing how followers use edging and denial to help motivate them, […]