I just found out about edging and realised that I’ve been doing this for years! […]
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Hi James.. I am 21 this year.. and have never came before. I found your blog a while ago and have been a big fan ever since. I would rub my clit or use my dildo on myself for hours, only ever getting close.. but never over the edge. In fact I think I am scared to go over the edge. Should I try to have an orgasm or just keep edging like I always have? T xx
Ohhhhh, dilemma! You know my general advice would be to try and have an orgasm. […]
I have to agree with Sage and Rey… I don’t actually think I’ve ever cum? I’ve never had the luck of getting a guy to do anything to my body so I’ve never had anyone else make me cum – and I genuinely think I’ve just been ruining my orgasms, because straight afterwards I am able to continue touching, even though I’m extremely sensitive! James, should I just keep ruining my orgasms or finally give myself a real one? -Alice
Hey Alice (best name for a denial slut btw) I think and hope you’re right. […]
I have been thinking about orgasms lately and how I have never had someone else make me cum and it made me start to really think about when l “cum”. I put that it quotes because I am starting to think I am not really cumming. I tend to stop when it feels overwhelmingly good and then I am left wet and squirmy. I always assumed that overwhelmingly good was cumming but as I read it seems I might just be edging or ruining them. How do I know? — Squirming Sage.
Hello Sage, Do your ‘orgasms’ leave you aching for more? Could you rub your clit hard […]
So, after looking at everything about ruins on your blog, I think I might have actually been just ruining all the orgasms I thought I’ve had. I’m curious if I’ve been denying myself the last few years and not even known it
Quite possibly, it’s not that uncommon. You get almost scared of how good it feels […]
I have a sexual dysfunction disorder and I’ve never come. I’m not even sure I can come. Eventually I went to my doctor about it, got sent to a sex doctors (yes, an actual sex doctor, those exist now) and she told me to stop focusing on trying to orgasm. Just focus on pleasure. So I’m to send a week basically trying to edge every day. That’s how I found your blog yesterday! Maybe I’ll do the Advent Denial Calendar? Anyway, thanks James! – Samantha
Hey Samantha, So I don’t know how much you’ve been reading the blog but when […]
Hello! So I’ve recently realized that when I play, I very very rarely achieve a true orgasm, I always pull my hand or toy away when it gets too intense for me. I’m constantly left feeling just as horny. What can I do to over come this? Thanks!
Absolutely nothing. This is perfect, always horny, never cumming. Don’t change.
Why I Deny: How I got started in orgasm denial
friskyb: Short version: When life hands you lemons, make lemony orgasm denial lemonade. 🙂 Long […]
Idk if it is a ruin or what but I have tried to cum(with permission only ever) but I can only almost cum, but then I get too sensitive. I haven’t experienced orgasm. (It’s unintentional) I like edging, but I’m just curious to what orgasm feels like.
What does an orgasm feel like? Awful, really, totally overrated, almost definitely a big disappointment, […]