Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Emma here, this is about the early kink trigger. My earliest memory of being turned on was when I was a little girl. I remember I couldn’t sleep, so I went downstairs to hang with my dad to watch tv. And he had on this western where a cowgirl had an indian girl tied up against the wall spread eagle. And I remember the cowgirl tickling the girl with a feather and laughing as she struggled. I always look back at that and think that’s where my submissive (and bisexual) side started.

Amazing isn’t it, something so specific and vivid. I’m sure something else would have triggered […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James! I just recently got in a relationship (girl and girl) and we both decided to start orgasm denial and edging, while being the person I am I said I’ll be the Dom. I have 0 experience being a Dom other than role switching. I was just asking for a few tips, something to get me started make her comfortable (until we try bigger things). Thanks for the help love your blog.

Well honestly I wouldn’t worry too much. At this point defining roles might put more […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

I’ve just found your blog & I’m so in love already. For a couple weeks now, I’ve been poking around tumblr about orgasm denial since I gave up masturbating for lent, but nothing has been such a resource as well as nice porn like your blog has ? Right now I have biofreeze (very similar to icyhot) on my clit, labia, and asshole as well as a crotch rope and I am so, so wet, but I have seen references to a knot over the clit a few times, could you go into more detail about that?

I can indeed, but it’s pretty much what it says. If you’re wearing a crotch […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

I’ve been edging for the last hour. I’ll do anything to cum, whether it be edging 10-20 times to sleeping with nipple clamps(which I’ve never done before, so sleeping will be painful), spanking. I don’t care I just need to cum, please sir please. I’m BEGGING!!! I’m frustrated??. I’m also the girl from your last permission denied post an hour ago. I’m dripping

Good to hear you’re dripping but you shouldn’t be sleeping with nipple clamps on, or […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James! I’m curious about something, I really want to use a crotch rope but I don’t have a rope and I can’t buy it bc I still live with my parents and when I go to uni, I live with other two girls and…I don’t feel like doing anything sexual in that house. So…one day I used a very long pearl necklace while I was edging and it was one of the best feeling in the world! But now I wanted to know if I can use something else to replace ropes. Thank you in advance. I really love your blog!

Absolutely you can. Crotch rope is a bit of a misnomer really, as I find […]