Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Emma here, this is about the early kink trigger. My earliest memory of being turned on was when I was a little girl. I remember I couldn’t sleep, so I went downstairs to hang with my dad to watch tv. And he had on this western where a cowgirl had an indian girl tied up against the wall spread eagle. And I remember the cowgirl tickling the girl with a feather and laughing as she struggled. I always look back at that and think that’s where my submissive (and bisexual) side started.

Amazing isn’t it, something so specific and vivid. I’m sure something else would have triggered […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James! I just recently got in a relationship (girl and girl) and we both decided to start orgasm denial and edging, while being the person I am I said I’ll be the Dom. I have 0 experience being a Dom other than role switching. I was just asking for a few tips, something to get me started make her comfortable (until we try bigger things). Thanks for the help love your blog.

Well honestly I wouldn’t worry too much. At this point defining roles might put more […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

I’ve just found your blog & I’m so in love already. For a couple weeks now, I’ve been poking around tumblr about orgasm denial since I gave up masturbating for lent, but nothing has been such a resource as well as nice porn like your blog has 😊 Right now I have biofreeze (very similar to icyhot) on my clit, labia, and asshole as well as a crotch rope and I am so, so wet, but I have seen references to a knot over the clit a few times, could you go into more detail about that?

I can indeed, but it’s pretty much what it says. If you’re wearing a crotch […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

I’ve been edging for the last hour. I’ll do anything to cum, whether it be edging 10-20 times to sleeping with nipple clamps(which I’ve never done before, so sleeping will be painful), spanking. I don’t care I just need to cum, please sir please. I’m BEGGING!!! I’m frustrated😖😫. I’m also the girl from your last permission denied post an hour ago. I’m dripping

Good to hear you’re dripping but you shouldn’t be sleeping with nipple clamps on, or […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James! I’m curious about something, I really want to use a crotch rope but I don’t have a rope and I can’t buy it bc I still live with my parents and when I go to uni, I live with other two girls and…I don’t feel like doing anything sexual in that house. So…one day I used a very long pearl necklace while I was edging and it was one of the best feeling in the world! But now I wanted to know if I can use something else to replace ropes. Thank you in advance. I really love your blog!

Absolutely you can. Crotch rope is a bit of a misnomer really, as I find […]