Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hey James, I started reading your blog a while ago and then my husband and I decided to try denial and see if we liked it. We had also been trying to get pregnant for a while, so we thought this might be a way to just have fun without the pressure. I got pregnant a week after we started denial – I think largely because we had sex way more often and I was way wetter so we didn’t need any lube. Not saying this will work for everyone, but I’m convinced it did for us!

Firstly, congratulations! I’ve known the pressure of the ‘must get pregnant’ sex and it soon becomes […]

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Hi, James! My master and I are in a bit of a predicament. I have medical conditions that keep me from participating in vaginal and anal penetration. It’s extremely painful (and not in a dirty way). I know that it’s sometimes supposed to be painful, but this is associated with trauma, so penetration (even tampons) means complete hell. We were looking for unique ways of denial, edging, forced orgasms, the works. We both are obsessed with your blog. Do you have any ideas?

Hi there! Okay, so you didn’t add clit stimulation to your list of pain so […]

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I’m a 37 years old women married and I’m reading your blog since 2 weeks I introduced the denial idea to my husband and he agreed of controlling my orgasm. Since 1 week he is not allowing me to cum and i’m edging on daily bases 3 to 4 times. Today I begged him for an orgasm and he asked me to take the permission for the first time from you by sending this message. I will not be allowed to cum unless you give me this permission. So please… please… pleaaaaaaaaase I want to release

It’s wonderful to see married couples enjoying this together. And a week for a first […]

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So ive been seeing this guy for a while but he hasnt yet cum. He has said that my head is great but i cant get him to cum from it. The sex is great too but the condoms make it hard for him to cum. (He agrees its a bad idea to go without even though im on the pill). But its getting frustrating for me and i worry it’s frustrating him worse. I really want to pleasure him but i dont know how to do more for him and thought you may have some ideas.

Okay, let’s roll this back to basics. Forget about blowjobs, forget about sex, and let’s […]