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I’m trying to tease a boy who hasn’t cum in 9 days. I can have him touch and tease himself however I want for another 6 days and then I’m going to tease him in person. Wanted some advice on how to drive him crazy, since he’s hard to edge in person. If I can get him to beg to cum I win a stuffie, so any help is appreciated
Well anon, as we know from fairgrounds people will do all kinds of things for […]
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I do hear good things about them but fuck me, who picked that god-awful name! […]
I need an edging regime set out for me for the rest of today. I figured you’d be the best person to come too…
Start edging. Stop at midnight. Sometimes simple is best. Enjoy!
Do you happen to know any blogs similar to yours, but more lesbian-centric? Don’t get me wrong, I love your blog, guy’s just don’t do anything for me
Well guys don’t do anything for me either so we have that in common. I […]
What do you think of COMPLETE denial, like removing the clit or labia so the girl feels no pleasure whatsoever?
If it’s a fantasy, sure fill your boots, you’re allowed to get yourself off on […]
Hi James! First, I just have to say that I am in love with your blog. Not only is it incredibly arousing, but you are so genuine and truly knowledgeable about this topic. I just wanted to tell you that! I’m also curious—and by no means do you have to answer this if it’s too personal—but I am curious about the relationship that you and your wife have. Is she also interested in denial? What is your sex life like? Sincerely, Carrie
Hi Carrie, not too personal at all! She’s the one who really got me exploring […]
Please James, Sir, help me… Im such a slut and I need correct guidance. Edging makes me horny, ruined rgasms makes me horny, no-touch makes me horny, I don’t know what to do, in what order or how much of each anymore.. should I edge or ruin or no touch????!!! I’m sorry sir I’m such a slut.
I want 6 edges one day, no touch the next. I mean fucking strict no […]
I know this is likely not the way you meant it, but your definition of no longer being a virgin only once you have a penis in your vagina doesn’t really allow for the loss of virginity in same sex couples. I personally think you’re no longer a virgin once you’ve had a mutually consensual and satisfying sexual experience with someone else. But I think that virginity is something that you have to define for yourself since there’s so much debate about what does or doesn’t qualify as losing it
Did… did you actually read the rest of the post before you sent me this? […]
Hello there! I found your tumblr just yesterday and the denial thing got me so interested I decided to give it a go. After a little bit of reading I opted for 4 edges a day, to see how and if I’m even going to like it. Not gonna lie, I’ve never been the disciplined one, so that’s quite challenging :) Do you think spinning the Wheel Of Denial between the edges is a good idea for a beginner? I was thinking it could spice things up a little bit. ~Butterfly
Hi Butterfly! Hmm, I think four edges is probably quite enough to keep you busy. […]