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Hi, James! I would also love to thank you for your reply about getting over the love, cause its been more than 2 years for me and he was my first and we clicked right a way about being total perverts in bed)) and it was very special. I have to say i still miss him and what we had, but your answer def gave a positive enegry. I really love that guy, but he doesnt me, and your words gave me inspiration. Thank you)

Thank you anon, I’m so glad it was helpful!  It’s okay to miss them, just […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

James, I need some advice. I’m in my first D/S relationship and recently my dom asked me to lose a bit of weight. I wasn’t happy with my weight anyway so I agreed but I’ve lost 3 stone (I’m now 7 stone 12lbs) which is slightly underweight for my size and more than I intended to lose and he still thinks I need to lose more:( I’ve tried talking to him about it but he just says it’s what he wants. What do you think I should do? -Mo

Hey Mo, Hmm, this doesn’t sound good. Firstly, losing three stone, fucking WOW, well done […]

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Hi James! So, my bf isn’t into denial at all, no matter how much I tried to get him to like it. But I can’t help I’m a denial fucking slut, I just love so much the sensation to be denied. He just wants to make me cum all the time, and mostly he does it very well, I hate to admite it. Because I HATE cumming, that’s the truth, I love to feel horny and insatiable all the time, 24/7. What should I do? Fake orgasms to him? I feel like I’m gonna be a terrible fucktoy if I do that to him. – Gabi

Hi Gabi, Okay, this sucks, I’m sorry. The big question is how clearly have you […]

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So after reading the message from the person who tried toothpaste on their clit I finally worked up the courage to have a go. I put a tiny bit and couldn’t really feel anything, my doorbell went so I pulled up my pants and went to open the door. Half way down the stairs I felt my clit start to tingle, I opened the door and it was a friend who wanted to come in for a cup of tea, I sat with my clit tingling for over an hour before they left and I was able to edge!

Oh this is fabulous, I love it! More confessions please my little denial sluts, we […]

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Hi, James. I’m in a bit of a predicament. I was about to have phone sex to edge me with this guy, but once it got down to it, I panicked out. He started calling me a dirty whore and a cunt and stuff, which I’m into, but he sounded like he meant it. I hung up on him, and he’s really, really angry. Now I feel dirty and scared. I know that this doesn’t have to do with denial, but I don’t know what to do.

There is a fine line between a dom and an asshole. This guy sounds like […]