Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

In response to the anon about Cal’s Curse and anxiety, I feel the same way. I personally have a lot of control issues that stem from a slew of mental health issues, and because of that, hypnotic ‘curses’ trigger major anxiety. I’ve found that because of that, I feel a lot safer avoiding them altogether and seeking out denial inspiration from other sources, especially people who I can have face-to-face interactions with.

More helpful replies on the issue of hypno audios inducing anxiety, thanks anon!

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James I’m new here. I’m on day six and I’m really enjoying it… When I’m worked up. When I’m not, I feel like shit. I dated someone who would berate and shame me for masturbating and was emotionally and sexually abusive. I hoped that consensual denial with my current partner would help me work through some of that, and also help with my anorgasmia, but having my autonomy removed with fear of punishment is really triggering sometimes, even if it was my idea and my choice. I feel suck.

Firstly well done for trying it after that difficult start.  It’s always challenging finding what […]

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Hi James! I wanted to thank you for your blog. It (and you by extension) has recently helped me through a very rough time in my life. I’ve been dealing with a lot of mental health issues, a lot of which get in the way of motivation. Denial has been a way that I can self-motivate in a small but exceedingly rewarding way. Today, I finally worked through a major panic attack on my own effectively, which was the next milestone in my denial. Guess what I’m doing tonight! Seriously. Thank you so much

This is amazing, well done! I do think there is lots more to explore with […]

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Hi. My sub has anxiety, but we’re thinking about exploring some more intricate bondage and things that would cause her to panic. She wants to take her medication beforehand, but I’m a little on edge about it. I don’t want to take advantage of her. However, there’s no way she would be able to handle being tied up further than what we already do without it. Do you have any thoughts or advice? Thank you!

Hi there. I’m no expert on the medication side, but there are a few things […]