i’m in a long distance relationship with a very busy dom, and i only get to see him once every couple of weeks. i’ve put myself on no touch so i can cum harder for him when i see him, but i’m struggling to not touch and tease my aching pussy. any advice?

In my experience extended ‘no touch’ which is basically what most call chastity, is counter-productive if done for too long. If…

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I’m kind of nervous asking this…. But I’ve been playing with myself and I’m not sure why but I used a makeup brush to put inside me and I didn’t really feel anything. But I bleed a little after. So… I guess my question(s) is, does this mean I am no longer a Virgin? And if I’m actually in the process of doing it will the guy be able to tell?

Hi Anon, You are absolutely still a virgin, so no need to worry about that. It’s possible you just tore…

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I’d like to be denied, but the problem is I’m a virgin :( all those tease and deny things usually involve penetration and I don’t want to do that. I don’t even have any toys really, except sometimes I can use a vibrating toothbrush

Hi, thanks for your question! Being a virgin shouldn’t be a problem at all, so don’t let it stop you…

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I have started orgasm denial and edging daily. Is it normal for it to take longer and longer to reach the edge? I am always wet and feeling the need to touch, but I don’t reach the edge of the orgasm as quickly as I did when used to orgasm as often as I desired.

The more I do this the more I learn that there is no ‘normal’ when it comes to the amazing complexity…

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