Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

hi james, i need some advice! i recently started experimenting with anal, wearing a small buttplug, which i enjoy greatly! (i have never gotten closer to cumming so fast like when wearing it and playing with my clit). but wearing it makes other penetration extremely uncomfortable, even borderline painful. do you have any tips to help with that? or am i just doomed to never be fully stuffed?

Okay, good question. So let’s just have a sideways look at what’s going on here: […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hey this may be embarrassing for you to answer but it is just as bad to ask. So my boyfriend and I have been having anal sex for 8 months now and we have had no problems until as of recent I’ve been accidentally shitting on his dick. I don’t feel it happening until I feel the outcome if that makes any sense.i know it’s gross but of course I have no idea what to do. We have been denying my orgasms since day one.

It’s not embarrassing at all. It’s a bit gross but so are lots of things […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

I’ve gotten kinda bored just edging my clit lately. So on a whim, I tried my first anal only edging session today. I was pretty horny already and my clit was nice and swollen, but I wasn’t all that wet. So, I fucked my ass super slowly with a thick dildo while ignoring my clit and my pussy. It made my pussy clench and drip like nothing else I’ve ever tried. I’ve never felt so denied. I’m still dripping as I write this, daydreaming about doing it again tonight. I think I may be addicted. 🙊

Oh my, that is a slippery slope. Well, as long as you use enough lube […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James, So I’m a lesbian, and I think I’m interested in anal play (maybe I’m spending too much time on your blog lol). I fingered myself today for the first time (carefully as I have long nails), and it didn’t feel amazing but it also wasn’t bad. Do you have any advice for getting into anal, especially since I don’t mess with penises? I looked through your anal training tag and I didn’t see anything for anyone super new to anal. (Sorry or this is long or annoying!)

It’s a great question, and I’m sure I’ve written various bits on it and I […]